Thanks for sharing your story. Today my heart is aching badly. Im in a horrible situation. I am married, and I am falling for a married guy. I love my husband, but the feelings I'm developing for this person are just too good to let them go. I have never ever cheated on my husband, and the attraction I feel for this guy is so great, that I was willing to do it. He is equally interested and attracted to me, we text all day everyday and we see each other a few times a week. However, I feel like the second plate as well, and even though I do not want him to leave his wife, it annoys the hell out of me that he can't be w/me anytime I want him. I need to unfall, please please help me. This is hurting already, and it has been only 2 months! argh, I need to take him off my head. Please give me some good advice. Thanks a lot.