how do you know when a shy guy likes you?
i have ways of knowing if a really shy guy likes you, but i am not going to tell you because if you are a boy, then you will know my secrets.
but i will give you a little hint ok.
if there's a boy who you think he likes you but he is very shy, so how can you tell for sure if her really likes you or if its just your immagination...
for the most part, shy boys are very quiet and like to be alone. these boys are called "loners" at school. but that doesn't mean that he's not interesting. infact, if you like misterious guys, this is the type of guy you want to get to know because they have so much to tell.
ONE BIG TIP to know if a shy man likes you, is sometimes when shy guys like you, they stare at you. the look at you and as soon as you look at them, they turn away..
so here's where my big secret come in, but that's all a im going to tell you..
if you want to learn more, you're going to have to tell me your story and maybe i'll post my secrets here.
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:: 1 :: #60181 - Reply By Lea On Thu Jul 03, 2008 2:54 am
just met a guy. really quiet, into sports. when we are together it takes me awhile to loosen up. but once he does he is all hugs. he admits he is not good at phone calls. he doesn't speak english well. just not for sure if i should proceed or back off.
:: 2 :: #58991 - Reply By Lauren On Mon Jun 23, 2008 11:01 am
okayy well where do i start this boy is a year above me we met about 4 months ago on my bus so wats happened is that hes been starting to flirt wiv me like touching me lookin into my eyes wen im talkin to him and always sitting close to me on the bus so then i ask him out and he says ill think about it so i go on my sisters msn because i know her password and start talkin to him pretending to be my sister and ask him wat he was gunna say and he said that he fancies me and other girls in his own year at skl so this other boy had been askin me out so then wa happenes in i go out wiv this boy and call it off wiv the other boy that i asked out and now we havent been talkin much but i dont know if he fancies me or evevn likes me! well wat hes doin to me now is hes hanging around where i usually hand around hes been following me lookin atn me wen i walk past him smiling at me and staring at me for more then 3 seconds please help all my mates think that hes after me but i still fancy him and i cant stop but does he love me cause he is so confusing !and even worse hes a emo and im sort of a chav so it might not work out but i hope it does :) and also i fink he goes on my bebo quite alot cause i always seem to hav loads of profile veiws and he commented on my photo once.
well thnx for reading this xx
well thnx for reading this xx
:: 3 :: #58754 - Reply By olga On Sat Jun 21, 2008 5:10 pm
i really like one guy buy is shy. i ben talking to him he is really nice and sweet guy. couple time i cut him looking at me and 2 staring at me i had weird feelings wen he is staring at me i feel shy. he is joking on front of my friends he jokes with me to, he talks to my friends he asked me one time were his sweater is i tolled he that i don"t know but i went look for it and i fund it and gave to him his sweater. and one time we were at restaurant i was talking to my friend i felt pain in my heart pain it was not bed pain it was short ones. i looked at him when was taking to other people. i was telling my friend that i"m not that hungry i'll get some thing sweet i got a cheese cake then i looked to his site he got same thing what i got but different flavor. he do same things what i do the most the things.
:: 4 :: #58438 - Reply By kiya On Thu Jun 19, 2008 12:38 pm
well i've been in the same class as a guy since znd grade and i know he likes me and i like him ( a lot) but we are both shy and afraid of what our friends will think (u know the song skyr boy that pretty much us) but we didnt do anything this year and hes going different shool than me and i dont know what to do! we go to summer camp together and we slow danced and i have he's email adress and i think he's avoiding me now cause he wont reply to anything i do call or email or whatever! what should i do! please help!!!!!
:: 5 :: #57408 - Reply By Francesca On Wed Jun 11, 2008 11:45 am
i have just met this guy and he is really she, he tells me he likes me but i dont no if he does as i asked him if he would like 2 meet up and he said he will c what he his doing. does this guy like me or dosent he
:: 6 :: #56815 - Reply By Willow On Fri Jun 06, 2008 11:37 pm
hey ive got a bit of a problem.
i really like this guy and hes 19 years old i am 16. we get on well and have a laugh together but when i see him with other girls he seems more comfortable around them and "touches" them basically but with me he doesnt. we have also been texting quite a lot recently but i am just so confused and i dont know what to think anymore.
can you help??
x
i really like this guy and hes 19 years old i am 16. we get on well and have a laugh together but when i see him with other girls he seems more comfortable around them and "touches" them basically but with me he doesnt. we have also been texting quite a lot recently but i am just so confused and i dont know what to think anymore.
can you help??
x
:: 7 :: #56526 - Reply By Dana On Wed Jun 04, 2008 7:59 pm
hey there:) im in year 12 this year and this popular guy (whos year 11) i noticed that he stares at me at recess and lunch. when he sees me going by with my friends, his friends look my way and he smiles, the thing is that i am a christian and im not allowed to date..im really confused in what to do next...pls reply, it would help heaps! thanks
:: 8 :: #56524 - Reply By ariana On Wed Jun 04, 2008 7:49 pm
there is a guy that is really sweet and cute and i like him alot but he is shy and i dont know if he likes me to so thats why i need to know your secret
:: 9 :: #56510 - Reply By melissa On Wed Jun 04, 2008 5:56 pm
does a guy usually stare a girl and look deep in her eyes for a long time for no reason or does that mean he may love her????
:: 10 :: #56508 - Reply By melissa On Wed Jun 04, 2008 5:52 pm
theres a guy he lives close to me and everytime he sees me he looks deep in my eyes for like a long time, and he use to stare at me alote and protect me from people who wants to hurt me or even just bug me its like he didnt want anybody to make me feel sad and im wondering if this could be love. and wherever i am he always turns around to look my way quickly. i was just wondering if you could tell me if a guy has feelings for one special girl or he just look at me because he likes looking at people...and does a guy when he really loves a girl will be ready to wait if he seems nice or he will just forget about her soon and go with another girl if he also have feeligs for her.
:: 11 :: #56227 - Reply By Diana On Mon Jun 02, 2008 1:55 pm
there is this guy.. nd i really like him.. but i dont know him that much yet..when i would see him on d street he would always look at me nd most of the times we would have eye contact..nd just a while ago it was the first time when we really met was at the cinema with my friends who knew his friends so they called him up to..nd he came ofcourse..but i never talked to him cause when i saw him i got very shy..nd at the cinema he got my number from one of my friends without asking me.. nd then like when the movie finished it was late we all hang out at this park nd then me nd my friend went home..it was like midle of the night when he texted me (i was still awake) nd he said he got my number so he thought he will give me his number.. nd then we texted each other like for a while..later me nd the friends i have incomen with that guy hang out it was lot of fun but i couldnt dare to talk to him nd he didnt talk to me eather..but i only noticed that he looked at me alot.. but when i looked at him he would alway turn or i would do something stupid like spill a drink so we never have an eye contact then..nd i know that he talks about me with some of his good friends..ohh nd just z or 3 days ago i know we would start talking to each other cause us nd or friends were at his garden listening z music at like nightime which was cool..nd he started to kind of open up but then my friends dad called nd i went home with her..nd it isnt the first time when he starts to open up nd something happens.. which is very stupid..ohh nd i nearly forgot just yesturday he was texting someone nd one of his friends asked him is that his gf nd he said it pretty loud when i was there hat he has no gf.. nd at the end i really like this guy he likes the same bands as me.. he plays guitare nd drums he is french he is nice nd sweet..he is just the perfect guy that i always wanted.. but now when i found him i dont know how to get him..please help me how can i tell him that i like him..
:: 12 :: #56165 - Reply By Debbie On Mon Jun 02, 2008 2:53 am
he is a very shy aquarius and we have dated before nothing heavy or serious just a bit of fun and that was it over.the thing is im still atracted to him and i know he feel's something as he acts all nervous when im around, he will either go out the area im standing or if he doesnt i know he will look at me and if i catch him looking he will look away!i always make an efort to look nice,and when i seen him last he made a point of going where i was, he was looking around the supermarket but he made a point at looking at me.what do i do do i carry on with trying to catch his atention or give up??
:: 13 :: #56137 - Reply By Wicked On Sun Jun 01, 2008 8:58 pm
well i have a daughter that goes to yst grade, theres this guy whos little brother goes to the same school. so we see each other every morning and afternoon. my sister told me this guy is always staring at me, i started noticing him last november zxxz, he finally got the nerve to say hi zmths ago, so we say hi everytime we see each other. hes friend over heard my phone number and called me from the guy(tom who i like) phone so i would have his number and he would have mine(really smart move) but he never called me so i waited a week and texted him hi, he responded back we texted all day untill we had to pick up the kids at school, it was really excieting hes really funny and very kool. so he ended up almost asking if we could hangout that night so we did, he came over to my house he didnt act to shy we talked easily, he kissed me and we couldnt keep our hands to our selfs, we kissed all night. next day he wouldnt look at me when i said hi, then he avoided me so i started avoiding him. then i decied to text him and tell him i had a great time hanging out with him he just texted back "oh yeah" so i was like watever, so finally he came and sat down with me one day at the school and we talked, so i texted him again that i missed his kisses, and he said he felt the same and when can he come over again? so the next day after that text confo, he was so scared to look at me talk to me he practically ran from me, any other time we would hangout and talk even walk to the bus together. so that day while we was at the bus stop i texted hi, and he texted back hi lol, i said why are you so shy and he said 'i dont know" , we ended up textin all night again and he wanted to come over. so my question is why is he so scared when he sees me now , but still wants to come to my house and hangout, also in his texts hes not that shy.
:: 14 :: #55971 - Reply By elizabeth On Sat May 31, 2008 5:28 pm
ok so there's this guy i've like for 2 years.....and the only reason i started liking him was cuz i thought he liked me too. see it all started in 7th grade (in band) i would always see him staring at me then he'd look away when he saw me looking at him.....at 1st i thought i'd never like him.....but now i'm finishing 8th grade & i love him to death! he is shy (i know this cuz i'm friends with his cuzin and they told me that) we made eye contact for like 5 seconds one day but most of the time he looks away.....i wanna tell him i like him but i dont know how.....i wrote a note but i'm afraid to give it too him cuz i'm shy too....kinda
:: 15 :: #55969 - Reply By abby On Sat May 31, 2008 5:17 pm
there is a guy named mac in one of my classes and we were watching a video and he was behind me and when i turn around he always seemed to "sneeze". also, he got me a birthday present even when we werent good friends(now we are bffs)
:: 16 :: #55963 - Reply By liset On Sat May 31, 2008 4:05 pm
ok i like this kid and he knows that i like him and last time his friend told me that he liked me and he said no he didnt like me and sometimes he stares at me like yesterday he was looking at me and then i was with my friends and this other kid and he just passed right in front of and hit the kid in the head(but their friends)and he went with his friends,one thing he had no reson to pass in front me and then just go with his friends and then my friend told him that i liked him and my friend said that when she said that he was smileing and looking at me and then one last time my friend told him that i liked him in front of me and he sticked out the middle finger. so can you please tell me if he does like me or not please...
:: 17 :: #55915 - Reply By Candice On Sat May 31, 2008 9:12 am
i like this really super shy boy who knows i like him.once he found out that i like him he told everyone even his mother. im good freinds with his sister too. we went to this party and he kept coming over with his best friend. he was talking to me and stairing at me. he was trying to get my attention alot. he also played guitar for just me and he kept saying he wants to hear me play piano. his friend came up to me during the party and said why dont you ask him out. i said do you know if he likes me, and he said everytime i ask him he says nothing about it and goes off the subject. i am so counfused. in your opinion what does this mean??? help!!!!
:: 18 :: #55530 - Reply By maria On Wed May 28, 2008 12:00 pm
i really need help.
i just really really like this kid & im not sure he likes me back.
cann youu helpp?
email me back =]
i just really really like this kid & im not sure he likes me back.
cann youu helpp?
email me back =]
:: 19 :: #54766 - Reply By maggie On Thu May 22, 2008 12:30 pm
well there's this guy at school that i have for a class.
and well i've catch him several times staring at me and when i turn he looks away. he's quiet and well shy. sometimes looks a bit intimidating, and mysterious. but he seems nice also. but i'm not sure if i like him, i feel i do
because i kinda like shy guys, i'm a bit shy myself, so yeah. and well this whoile school year i didn't talk to him, because i didn't know what to say, only two times he said hi to me. which i was very surprised that he did.
and well i've catch him several times staring at me and when i turn he looks away. he's quiet and well shy. sometimes looks a bit intimidating, and mysterious. but he seems nice also. but i'm not sure if i like him, i feel i do
because i kinda like shy guys, i'm a bit shy myself, so yeah. and well this whoile school year i didn't talk to him, because i didn't know what to say, only two times he said hi to me. which i was very surprised that he did.
:: 20 :: #54689 - Reply By Jen On Wed May 21, 2008 8:21 pm
so my story. everyone tells me he is shy, i don't doubt it at all considering i am friends with his ex and she tells me he takes forever to ask someone out. now he asked for my number and when i asked if he wanted to do something he said he did. we went bowling and it was fun and everything but the end of the night it was just a awkward silence. i asked if he wanted to do it again sometime, he said definitely but i can't tell if he likes me or not. so help.
:: 21 :: #54536 - Reply By Mimi On Tue May 20, 2008 12:57 pm
ok its me again and i have now been seated by the guy i like and none of his friends r sitting near him so should i talk to him and b come friends with him
:: 22 :: #54303 - Reply By courtney On Sun May 18, 2008 7:36 pm
please tell me cuz i like this one guy and whenever i look a him i see him turn away. i really like him and i want to no i he likes me so please please tell me!!!!!!!! please
:: 23 :: #53534 - Reply By lyndsay On Mon May 12, 2008 1:53 pm
well, first of all, i'm lyndsay (i'm 14). my bestfriends name is danielle (14), and i realllly like her brother, jason (17). his family tells me he likes me, but he doesn't show it because he is so shy. like, he barely even talks to me, except every here and there. their parents, his bestfriend michael, and danielle all tell me he likes me but he really doesn't act like it. plus, he told michael he wouldn't go out with me because i'm his sisters bestfriend. but, i like him so much, it's unreal. how do i start talking to him since he's soooo shy he barely talks at all? i already told him i liked him, but he's still shy. i need to talk to him because i like him so much and i don't want to lose him and i want to tell him that danielle could care less if we went out, she wants us to! but how do i start a conversation, and keep it going? what if he walks away?
:: 24 :: #53211 - Reply By Rachel On Fri May 09, 2008 2:00 pm
man i need 2 know the secrets
because i'm really anxious because there's this boy i like
but he's really shy, but then he's active at the same time
if i come around he really starts getting quiet
and he blushes
i know this is a big sign
i think he like's me but
i want 2 know the secrets so i can reel him in!
because i'm really anxious because there's this boy i like
but he's really shy, but then he's active at the same time
if i come around he really starts getting quiet
and he blushes
i know this is a big sign
i think he like's me but
i want 2 know the secrets so i can reel him in!
:: 25 :: #53111 - Reply By bianca On Thu May 08, 2008 2:57 pm

i really like this guy at school but i dont know if he likes me back can ou tell me the rest of your secrets to find out it will make averyone elses love life alot more easier...by:bianca chouinard
:: 26 :: #53110 - Reply By TGWKE On Thu May 08, 2008 2:50 pm
so there is this guy i like and we are already friends. he talks to me more than he talks to most people (except for his guy friends). he is probably going to be shyest in his grade, though he says he isn't shy, he just isn't very friendly. he doesn't talk a lot, but the only time i see him smile is with his friends. recently we were at a dinner party and i had thought everyone was going to do something afterward, so i was like, "guys, are we going to do anything?" and he said, "if you want to do something later, i don't have plans." so i said, "are you serious, or do you just want me to be quiet?" he said, "no, i'm serious" and him, me, and a few other people went and saw a movie together. is it possible that he likes me, or am i kidding myself? and if so, what should i do to get us to hang out? how can i find out if he likes me?
:: 27 :: #52219 - Reply By lulu On Wed Apr 30, 2008 1:59 pm
well, there is this guy at school... that just keeps on staring at me... whenever he tries 2 talk 2 me... he blushes like crazy... i like him... and we are both shy... i asked my friend to ask him out 4 me...and he said no!... well his friend was with him while we were waiting 4 the buses... and his friend is like ( -) likes you so much... then he comes and he is like never ever!! i think he is 2 shy 2 admit it!!! please read all of this and help me!!!... i called him and pretended to be someone else... and he is like bie i have to go...
:: 28 :: #51208 - Reply By Ashley.M On Tue Apr 22, 2008 2:34 pm
k, there is a guy in my school, and on my bus. each time we're on the bus, he tries to take the seat right beside me. other days, he pretends he doesn't know, and skip the seat beside me;just takes two seat behind me. after school, he walks in front of (we live near), and he trys to glance at me. when i look at him, he looks away, and he doesit again, when i'm not looking.
also, he tries to wear the same jens colour as me. if i wore blue jeans today, he knows i will wear black 2morrow,and wears black. other times, it's like he doesn't notice me. when he sits beside me, he tries to put his foot closer to mines. or he moves closer, and put his hand on my seat. he cracks joke with his friends as well.
please help!
could you answer me? please ! does he like me? i really thank u if u do! please! just by reading this, tell me if he likes me or not!
also, he tries to wear the same jens colour as me. if i wore blue jeans today, he knows i will wear black 2morrow,and wears black. other times, it's like he doesn't notice me. when he sits beside me, he tries to put his foot closer to mines. or he moves closer, and put his hand on my seat. he cracks joke with his friends as well.
please help!
could you answer me? please ! does he like me? i really thank u if u do! please! just by reading this, tell me if he likes me or not!
:: 29 :: #50891 - Reply By Confused On Sun Apr 20, 2008 3:48 am
there is a guy who is bit more elder than me not married but good looking so i think he might have a girlfriend but not sure about it. i am so not sure about the way he respond. sometime i feel he is hiding from me, that he never show up when i am around the other time i feel he is starting at me. he seems to be very nice and calm one day but the other day its just opposite his acts cold and react as if he does not even know me. i have seen him several times starting at me. if i make a loud noise say seems like i am hurt or is arguing with someone then he just seems to rush and his expression is completely weired. i may see him may be 1 in 2 week, but he acts really weired infront of me sometimes gives a loving expression, laugh aloud sometime react as if he hates me. when i mail him to ask some question he never replies me back and when i go and ask him he does not respond but at the end of the day he does the thing that i ask him to do only if i go and ask him personally. he does not even seem to be interest to see me most of the time, when he is somewhere in the study room and i am outside he does not even care to come out or stay still in the room as if he sees me its a bad luck for him but sometime feels as if he cares ... especially when i am down or sick, he does not show just simply ask how are you but i know he cares
i am so confused whether this guy is hate me or not
i am so confused whether this guy is hate me or not
:: 30 :: #50769 - Reply By Celeste On Sat Apr 19, 2008 10:07 am
well, i like my best friend. he's a guy and we have been friends since the zth grade. now it's almost the end of xth grade. i want to know if he likes me. in zth grade i really liked him while i was dating my boyfriend. he even gave me a christmas present. it was a beautiful bracelet. it was pink and had stars, hearts, and moons. and we always joked around. we exchanged numbers and called each other every night, and talked for about and hour and a half. then in yth grade, we play fought like everyday. some of my friends noticed and they told us we fought more then a married couple. but it was all play fighting because we got over it in about a day or two. then over the yth grade summer i told him how i actually felt. i told him i love him. i knew it would be a shock to read, but, he wrote back. he wrote, i like you too. and i thought it was someone else, so i said, just a friend huh? and he said no, a little bit more then a friend, then laughed. but now that xth grade has started we haven't talked as much because we don't have any classes together or the same lunches. which sucks. he thinks so too. we still talk on the phone, and one night we wanted to see if we could break our time, (z hours and 4y minutes) so i called him at x and we talked until yy. three hours. then both of our moms came and told us we had to get off. but we have tried as hard as we could to hang out and do stuff together. we even ran for student council. and we both won. but, i've always wondered if he still likes me.... anyone want to answer that one?
:: 31 :: #50656 - Reply By sarah On Fri Apr 18, 2008 2:04 pm
hello my name is sarah and i have a kick with a guy in my job i have 17 years old and he is 11 days younger than me.i see him all tuesday night because we have a reunion but he don't talk a lot. i have the feeling that he is a little beat atrrated by me but maybe it's just a feeling.when i try to talk to him he did'nt really look at me sometimes he smile and look at other thing just to not continuing our disccussion.one days he give me a lift at home and he was so kind i was talking to him about stuff and he was smilling and driving so no really eyes contact but he was kind and just a little beat shy.sometimes i think he's looking at me but i'm not sure and when i have eyes contact with him he does'nt look like someone who was focussing in me he's just calm and look with his eye behind me. i don't wanna have false wish and i'm trying to talk or be kind with him but he always get way or stay far from me.
please i need help from someone who know what he or she is talking about
desparetly sarah
please i need help from someone who know what he or she is talking about
desparetly sarah
:: 32 :: #50269 - Reply By Ashley.M On Tue Apr 15, 2008 11:32 am
hey, it's me again. i forgot to say, when he sits beside me, he tries to put his foot closer to mines. or he moves clsoer, and put his hand on my seat. he cracks joke with his friends as well.
please help!
please help!
:: 33 :: #50268 - Reply By Ashley.M On Tue Apr 15, 2008 11:29 am
k, there is a guy in my school, and on my bus. each time we're on the bus, he tries to take the seat right beside me. other days, he pretends he doesn't know, and skip the seat beside me;just takes two seat behind me. after school, he walks in front of (we live near), and he trys to glance at me. when i look at him, he looks away, and he doesit again, when i'm not looking.
also, he tries to wear the same jens colour as me. if i wore blue jeans today, he knows i will wear black 2morrow,and wears black. other times, it's like he doesn't notice me. is he trying tosay something? or is he getting my attention?
please help!
thanks
also, he tries to wear the same jens colour as me. if i wore blue jeans today, he knows i will wear black 2morrow,and wears black. other times, it's like he doesn't notice me. is he trying tosay something? or is he getting my attention?
please help!
thanks
:: 34 :: #49945 - Reply By amanda On Sun Apr 13, 2008 1:14 pm
its mke again. i just wanted to clarify something. our parent's friend's sons say that we are girlfriend/boyfriend. not our parents.
:: 35 :: #49943 - Reply By amanda On Sun Apr 13, 2008 1:11 pm
heres my story..... i have known this guy almost our entire lives (our moms are best friends). i was talking to his brother and he said that every time his bro is around me he is shy. also every since he has turned 13 he almost ignores me, is shy arouns me and once when he came upstairs he saw me and stared. also every time we go on vacations together with our parents other friend, they all say that were girlfriend/boyfriend. probablt becasue we are like almost inceprable. but still he is super shy around me, yet we have a great time together. he is very nice and i really like him. i want to know if he likes me and if he does,should i make the first move and tell him that i like him???? im seeing him again this week. and im too nervouse to ask him out.
:: 36 :: #48177 - Reply By Mimi On Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:44 pm
i like this guy but i hve asked him out and he said no my friends told me a few weeks later he called me a slut but when ever we r alone he is super nice to me but when he is around he's friends he is a little bit mean to me
:: 37 :: #47539 - Reply By lovecrazy On Fri Mar 28, 2008 4:25 pm
ok there is this boy that i really like but idk if he likes me back...b-cuz when i try to talk to him 2 day he just shrugged his sholders.....and the last thing he said o me was what is the homework and i didn't get to answer b-cuz someone called my name then when i looked back he was talking to anthor girl... but i hear the boy is shy.... but today on the bus i sat in the front and i was looking at my hair in the mirrior and i saw him looking at me and i turned around and we looked at each other in the eyes for like 3 seconds but i was amazed i wonder if he likes me..............i need to know if he likes me and how can i get him to talk to me and what schould i say to start a conversation.....................pl help
:: 38 :: #46592 - Reply By Kaiti On Sat Mar 22, 2008 6:57 am
anyone here? i kinda need some advice a.s.a.p, because apparently my guy friend has other ideas... he tried to confrence the guy while i was on the phone with him last night... and does pretending to be fighting with light sabers count as play fighting? we were in band and i guess i was darth vador with my clarinet and he was yoda or something with his flute... i'm not really a star wars person)... but anyway, what can i do? and my guy friend is kind of spontaneous and all... so what should i do or say when he eventually does get the opportunity to play matchmaker?
:: 39 :: #46430 - Reply By Kaiti On Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:56 pm
sorry to continue on two posts, but i'm really confused about this. i have no clue what to do about this. we play in a trio together for a contest we're going to go to in about a week, and my girl friend was in the play, so one day she was at play practice and it was just the two of us. there were trombones and trumpets practicing in the storage room so we went into the chorus room to practice and not get distracted. after he set up his stand and music we played our piece and then just goofed around with the other songs we played in band class. while he was playing a song that i didn't have memorized i went over to the piano and started to play don't stop believing (i'm a journey fan). he came over and started playing the bottom part to heart and soul. after i knew what he was doing i played the melody, and it sounded good. but this was also the first time i hd noticed that he was really different around just me. (am i reading too far into it, or is this a clue?) then after practice was over we went to wait for our rides in the front of the school. we had this conversation about school, (not the first thing i would usually talk about), and it lasted a grand total of about five minutes, in which we discussed our homework for that night and the book we were reading in language arts class. (that's always interesting stuff, isn't it?... i didn't think it was.) and earlier he laughed when i said something related to star wars, but nevertheless it was something pointless. what does anyone who reads this think?
:: 40 :: #46427 - Reply By Kaiti On Thu Mar 20, 2008 7:32 pm
hi. anyone got advice on how a shy girl should deal with a shy guy? i'd love a reply.
so, like i've said before, i'm really shy and so is this guy. but i'm also kind of sporty and i'll talk to both guys and girls. i was talking with a guy friend of mine on saturday night (just a friend), and he hinted that someone at my school liked me. i knew that he knew one of the guys in my grade so i decided to pay attention to signs on monday morning. on monday i didn't find anything unusual so i called my friend again that night. he brought it up again and this time, i don't think he meant to, but he started joking with me and he said my first name, my middle name, and the guys last name. since this friend is the sarcastic type, i had to go to school and check things out for myself the next day. sure enough, that morning in band (it's the only class i have with this guy), i played this little solo and he complemented me. he has stuck up for me before in these little stupid play fights me and a girl friend of mine have, and he is a lot quieter and soft-spoken around me. he just acts differently when it's just us. i can't really tell if he's staring or not, and i can't look at him because i have limited vission, but sometimes i think he's focusing on me. in the halls, i thought he looked towards me today, but i'm not sure. i mean, my other friend comfermed that he likes me, and that friend knows i like him, but what should i do? i don't think he knows i like him and i want to let him know in a discrete way, but i just don't know how to go about it, and i think that is how he may feel about it too, especially since i'm kinda different... if you catch my drift.
any advice? hints? suggestions?
so, like i've said before, i'm really shy and so is this guy. but i'm also kind of sporty and i'll talk to both guys and girls. i was talking with a guy friend of mine on saturday night (just a friend), and he hinted that someone at my school liked me. i knew that he knew one of the guys in my grade so i decided to pay attention to signs on monday morning. on monday i didn't find anything unusual so i called my friend again that night. he brought it up again and this time, i don't think he meant to, but he started joking with me and he said my first name, my middle name, and the guys last name. since this friend is the sarcastic type, i had to go to school and check things out for myself the next day. sure enough, that morning in band (it's the only class i have with this guy), i played this little solo and he complemented me. he has stuck up for me before in these little stupid play fights me and a girl friend of mine have, and he is a lot quieter and soft-spoken around me. he just acts differently when it's just us. i can't really tell if he's staring or not, and i can't look at him because i have limited vission, but sometimes i think he's focusing on me. in the halls, i thought he looked towards me today, but i'm not sure. i mean, my other friend comfermed that he likes me, and that friend knows i like him, but what should i do? i don't think he knows i like him and i want to let him know in a discrete way, but i just don't know how to go about it, and i think that is how he may feel about it too, especially since i'm kinda different... if you catch my drift.
any advice? hints? suggestions?
:: 41 :: #45340 - Reply By Pink On Thu Mar 13, 2008 6:58 pm
okay well, so i`m kind of into this guy and some friends tell me that he`s really shy or something. like, when you walk past him on campus, he never talks or smiles unless he`s with his like bestest buddies or just that one guy group he hangs out with during lunch or something.
okay so, he and i did not know each other, until this one tuesday when his friends decided to tell him that i liked him. (every tuesday is like running day for all classes. and he`s a freshmen, i`m a sophomore so that`s the only day we can "run together" ) during running that day, his whole group was behind me and his friends kept on constantly saying hi to me, then saying hi with the guy i like`s name too. making it obvious? heck yeah. so i just decided to ignore them and continued to run with my friend. then for some reason, i saw the guy running next to me, and i was so nervous that i basically freaked out and just ran off. then his friends told me later on that the guy thinks i was a little bit weird for running off when he was "trying to talk to me." and yeah, i hated myself for that after i heard . i also think he tried once more to get my attention because unlike usual, he was "talking" with a friend right outside my class, and i was standing outside my door talking with my friends too. (he was about 4 feet away from me and when my friend turned me around to look at him, we made eye contact but i quickly left and went to class.)
so during the weekend, i kind of apologized for running away but it was over myspace . he doesn't reply comments so i was stupid for expecting one.. but then this tuesday it was running again and i noticed that he was behind me either by himself or with only one other person the whole time. he`s usually with his group of firends. well, i never talked to him because i didn't know how to start. so my friend and i just went to his usual group and started talking iwth them. one of his friends i`ve known since like middle school and he was saying that i shouldn't like my crush in secret and i should actually say hi to him instead of always running away and stuff. then i was just like, ohkay, i do not want to hear this so i ran off. but then after pe that day, i dressed and went outside to wait for the bell to ring for lunch, and then his whole group including him was walking out of the locker room as well. his friend called my name and when i looked, my crush was walking next to his friend, and his friend had my cellphone. so i had to go and take it. while i was walking over, my crush and his firend were pushing my cellphone back and forth going , "you give it to her!", "no, you give it to her!!!". well, my crush ended up giving me my cellphone, i managed to slip out a little "hey" but his firends thought i said thanks and started yelling out "omg she said thanks to you!! you guys got somethin going on~". immature? yeah. (also, my friend saw from a distance away that his whole group was shouting and my crush was still smiling/laughing, she says he was kinda blushing, like not teasing/joking laughing but it was a 'something' laughing. so i don`t know, confused much?)
well, that was our very first "talk." i can never make eye contact with him.. so then on wednesday, i saw him through the halls right before our last period and i decided to bring up the courage to say hi. i actualy went, "hey _____", but he dint hear me!! i felt so bad..he just continued walking. my friend found out and started dragging me to him (his and my locker are basically around the same area), and we were causing kind of a big scene because all my friends were there watching since they had class at that particular spot. while my friend dragged me and i was trying to escape, i saw his other friend dragging him while he was trying to escape as well! well they managed to get us to face each other and everyones watching, he looked at me while smiling&laughing and said, "hi." i couldn't look at him in the eyes so i kind of looked down and just went, "hey." then his friend kept on yelling, 'talk to her!" and my crush just yelled back, "there`s nothing to talk about!!!" so he kinda left, and i kinda left. that was the second time.
then today is his birthday, and i actually planned a conversation to say to him during pe, but i saw him with his friends and i chickened out again feeling really bad. i found out that his whole pe class sang happy birthday to him, and i basically missed it. so after pe, after we were dressed and out again, he and his friends were walking away and some of them kept on gesturing me to walk over and just say happy birthday. i really did not know what to do, but at the end, i managed to walk past him (he knew i was walking there on purpose because his friends are loud whisperers) and i smiled and said, "happy birthday". but he didn't even smile and just nodded his head while looking at me. so his friend pushed him really hard and yelled out, "you`re messed up!" (because all he did was nodd) . his other friend told me later on that when they told him happyb-day he also just nodded his head so it kinda made me feel a little better..) so while we were walking through the hall, we were seriously just passing each other like almost shoulder touching, and he just quickly turned to his right to talk to his friend...he never says hi to me when he sees me. so i really do not know whether he is just shy or whether he is seriously tickd off or not interested.
-note: sorry everyone for this long long thing but i`m just trying to provide as much detail as possible . *sigh* i feel really bad about this and i don't know whether i should just start saying hi to him when i see him or just leave it with nothing? also, my friends are starting to get mad at him (they dont even know him, they just listen to basically what i typed up there) because he is not the one saying hi to me first? i don`t know...help?!?!
okay so, he and i did not know each other, until this one tuesday when his friends decided to tell him that i liked him. (every tuesday is like running day for all classes. and he`s a freshmen, i`m a sophomore so that`s the only day we can "run together" ) during running that day, his whole group was behind me and his friends kept on constantly saying hi to me, then saying hi with the guy i like`s name too. making it obvious? heck yeah. so i just decided to ignore them and continued to run with my friend. then for some reason, i saw the guy running next to me, and i was so nervous that i basically freaked out and just ran off. then his friends told me later on that the guy thinks i was a little bit weird for running off when he was "trying to talk to me." and yeah, i hated myself for that after i heard . i also think he tried once more to get my attention because unlike usual, he was "talking" with a friend right outside my class, and i was standing outside my door talking with my friends too. (he was about 4 feet away from me and when my friend turned me around to look at him, we made eye contact but i quickly left and went to class.)
so during the weekend, i kind of apologized for running away but it was over myspace . he doesn't reply comments so i was stupid for expecting one.. but then this tuesday it was running again and i noticed that he was behind me either by himself or with only one other person the whole time. he`s usually with his group of firends. well, i never talked to him because i didn't know how to start. so my friend and i just went to his usual group and started talking iwth them. one of his friends i`ve known since like middle school and he was saying that i shouldn't like my crush in secret and i should actually say hi to him instead of always running away and stuff. then i was just like, ohkay, i do not want to hear this so i ran off. but then after pe that day, i dressed and went outside to wait for the bell to ring for lunch, and then his whole group including him was walking out of the locker room as well. his friend called my name and when i looked, my crush was walking next to his friend, and his friend had my cellphone. so i had to go and take it. while i was walking over, my crush and his firend were pushing my cellphone back and forth going , "you give it to her!", "no, you give it to her!!!". well, my crush ended up giving me my cellphone, i managed to slip out a little "hey" but his firends thought i said thanks and started yelling out "omg she said thanks to you!! you guys got somethin going on~". immature? yeah. (also, my friend saw from a distance away that his whole group was shouting and my crush was still smiling/laughing, she says he was kinda blushing, like not teasing/joking laughing but it was a 'something' laughing. so i don`t know, confused much?)
well, that was our very first "talk." i can never make eye contact with him.. so then on wednesday, i saw him through the halls right before our last period and i decided to bring up the courage to say hi. i actualy went, "hey _____", but he dint hear me!! i felt so bad..he just continued walking. my friend found out and started dragging me to him (his and my locker are basically around the same area), and we were causing kind of a big scene because all my friends were there watching since they had class at that particular spot. while my friend dragged me and i was trying to escape, i saw his other friend dragging him while he was trying to escape as well! well they managed to get us to face each other and everyones watching, he looked at me while smiling&laughing and said, "hi." i couldn't look at him in the eyes so i kind of looked down and just went, "hey." then his friend kept on yelling, 'talk to her!" and my crush just yelled back, "there`s nothing to talk about!!!" so he kinda left, and i kinda left. that was the second time.
then today is his birthday, and i actually planned a conversation to say to him during pe, but i saw him with his friends and i chickened out again feeling really bad. i found out that his whole pe class sang happy birthday to him, and i basically missed it. so after pe, after we were dressed and out again, he and his friends were walking away and some of them kept on gesturing me to walk over and just say happy birthday. i really did not know what to do, but at the end, i managed to walk past him (he knew i was walking there on purpose because his friends are loud whisperers) and i smiled and said, "happy birthday". but he didn't even smile and just nodded his head while looking at me. so his friend pushed him really hard and yelled out, "you`re messed up!" (because all he did was nodd) . his other friend told me later on that when they told him happyb-day he also just nodded his head so it kinda made me feel a little better..) so while we were walking through the hall, we were seriously just passing each other like almost shoulder touching, and he just quickly turned to his right to talk to his friend...he never says hi to me when he sees me. so i really do not know whether he is just shy or whether he is seriously tickd off or not interested.
-note: sorry everyone for this long long thing but i`m just trying to provide as much detail as possible . *sigh* i feel really bad about this and i don't know whether i should just start saying hi to him when i see him or just leave it with nothing? also, my friends are starting to get mad at him (they dont even know him, they just listen to basically what i typed up there) because he is not the one saying hi to me first? i don`t know...help?!?!
:: 42 :: #44876 - Reply By scierra On Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:18 pm
a guy i like is very popular and is not shy to other people but he is to me and he always stares at me and sometimes we stare in to each others eyes and then look away we are only in 1 class together and its in pe when we work out he seems to stare at me without me looking and when i have my friends ask him if he likes me he says he dosnt lik any1 but he never answers the question i ask so....... does he like me
:: 43 :: #44574 - Reply By Cassandre On Fri Mar 07, 2008 11:37 am
k i like this guy right and i didnt start really notice him until this one time wen i was at this one pizza store i turned around and he was staring at me. so since then i started lookin at him too now for the past two weeks everytime i see him i look at him and he's always looking back bt me being me i turn away and thursday he was on the bus with me and everytime he had an oportunity he would turn around and look at me and when i was leaving the bus he just kept on staring. the other day i asked him where he was from i swear this kid was sweating and blushing but the problem is im black and he's white (not that im racist) bt i have a second thoughts because i dont think he'll want to go out with a black girl (don't know why i thought of that in the first place but i do)
and he never lets go of my gaze im the one that's alwayz turning around....bt i like him alot and i want to tell him but im shy
so what do i do????
im so shy when it comes to guys
please tell me
do i tell him or do let him come to me??
oh yea he's leaving because he's a senior and im a sophomore =[
and he never lets go of my gaze im the one that's alwayz turning around....bt i like him alot and i want to tell him but im shy
so what do i do????
im so shy when it comes to guys
please tell me
do i tell him or do let him come to me??
oh yea he's leaving because he's a senior and im a sophomore =[
:: 44 :: #43440 - Reply By Shygirlluvsshyboy On Wed Feb 27, 2008 10:44 pm
i'm a really shy girl and i like my friends brother. he is really quiet and always does his work-even during lunch. but he is so gorgeus and i think he likes me because at school he would look at me and when i turn around he looks at me for like 2 seconds and looks away. i am so in love with him. i want to share my thoughts with him and hear him tell me his. he is so strong and masculine and at the same time sweet and sensitive. i want him to love me.please tell me your secrets i need to be sure.9
:: 45 :: #43213 - Reply By Hah. Cant tell you.=] On Tue Feb 26, 2008 2:04 pm
okay. so there is this boy. he used to like me in 6th grade. we are both in 7th grade now. it seems to me, and a lot of other people that he is shy. in the beggining of the year people asked him if he liked me. he said he didnt know, and was smiling and shrugging his shoulders. it has been crazy and awkward between me and him. we never talk because its just kinda weird and he never comes up to me and says anything. i think he is scared around me. usually when i see him in the hallway, if he sees me he is quiet but liek only if were coming like head on. but if he sees me and i dont see him he will try being loud to get my attention. he knows that i liked him since the 6th grade. he talks to his friends about me. but usually when i hear things from his friends they say that some people would take it in a good way some people wouldnt, i guess it depends how you put it.=] but some days he like wants to be around me and some days it seems like he jsut wants to be to himself. last year he would blush when someone would ask him. but his sister is in the 8th grade. and i dont think she likes me because i like her brother. so i think that could be part of what is holding him back if he likes me. so the days that he acts like he likes me i think he does but the days he acts like he doesnt i think he is lieing because if he didnt like me he wouldnt show signs taht he does. you get what im saying?? he is not a player. but just please write back. tell me if you think he likes me.
thank you.=]
thank you.=]
:: 46 :: #42836 - Reply By Kaykay On Sat Feb 23, 2008 10:02 pm
ok i really like this guy and he rides my bus and lives in my neighborhood and is in 2 of my classes and his locker is right by mine. he knows that i like him. his ex just dumped him and i asked him out 2 days later. he said no but ever since then he's been really sweet to me and everytime i see him he stares at me. what does that mean? thanks so much!
:: 47 :: #41718 - Reply By nena linda On Sun Feb 17, 2008 4:18 pm
well i think a guy that was in my class.. like me i really feel that he like me.. cause of the way he look at me, when i look at him he tried to look in in another direction, he hides from me, first he wasnt like that ... i dont know but i think he told his friends something cause his friends look at me, i remember that one day i was passing and he was there i went to the machines to buy something and then when i turn he was seeing which way i was going and like many times he has a class to me and he always was waiting near my class when my class was done.. but he is so shy.. what do u guys thinkkk?? plsss tell me something
:: 48 :: #41083 - Reply By audrey On Wed Feb 13, 2008 6:31 pm
ok so i have class with a really cute shy guy and we started talking on the internet but in class not that much so finally i got the guts to tell him i likied him and he just said it was a surprise and after just talked like normal but evry time i look at him he looks at me and turns away or stays away in class and its like what the f you nkow
:: 49 :: #40198 - Reply By Lisa On Thu Feb 07, 2008 8:05 pm
okay here it goes me and my guy friend have known each other for 3 years. we didn't get really close to each other until last year since we had so many classes together. at first it felt like a regular friendship there were no extra long glances or compliments but as the year progressed he started to become aware of the guys i would check out and insult them at first i thought he was just joking but he began to sound jealous. then things became even more different when he would bring up conversations that i didn't remember and he would continously tell me that he has bad memeory that really made wonder but i brushed it aside. also he would try to invite me to places but i had to decline due to a lack of money to pay for everything i thought at the time that if he liked me he would have payed for it. i began to think may be i was just reading him incorrectly and that he didn't like me but he began to walk closer to me in the hallways and moved his seat next to me in physics class and began to sit close to me there and wouldn't like it when another classmate (who was a guy) would sit next to me. after that i started to believe that he liked me again but he could never directly tell me or officialy ask me out on a date. then summer came we didn't have each other's number so we couldn't talk to each other not until i got a myspace did we communicate again we would stay up and talk. that's when he asked me to hang out with him at lunch just the two us this year like the year before but this time he would be driving us around. up to this point many people told me how much we looked like a couple they would tell me that we would be gazing at each other and would be leaning in to each other more than normal friends would. anyway back to this year sometimes being in the car with him is akward since he is always quiet and moving around nervously and he stares a lot and tries to make it look like he looking at something else. he compliments me but in ways that i don't get immediately example he likes cars and compared me to a toyota supra which he likes a lot well one time when we were driving he calls out "hey that's the car i compared you to its so sexy" at first i thought he was talking about the car but then i realized that he was calling me sexy i think i'm not sure.anyway back to this year right now though whenever we see each other we in the hallways we don't say hi just keep walking but meet up for lunch everyday i think may be he's bored and doesn't know how to tell me because he his unable to talk to me like he talks to other girls with them he is less nervous and quiet and is able to joke around without feeling cautious i think that if a guy liked you shouldn't he feel comfortable around you.
anyway again he asked me to go to a concert but again i have no money i want him to take me but i don't know if he likes me that much to pay for me also i want him to be my valentine but i don't think he will ask.
can someone please give me advice and help clear my confusion on if he likes me as more than just a friend and help me get this shy guy to ask me out and in case you haven't noticed i am a very shy girl.
anyway again he asked me to go to a concert but again i have no money i want him to take me but i don't know if he likes me that much to pay for me also i want him to be my valentine but i don't think he will ask.
can someone please give me advice and help clear my confusion on if he likes me as more than just a friend and help me get this shy guy to ask me out and in case you haven't noticed i am a very shy girl.
:: 50 :: #40027 - Reply By Kristina On Wed Feb 06, 2008 4:19 pm
well theres this guy i think he likes me but hes not a "loner" he is actually really popular but not around me he is so hard to talk to cause im so very out going but yet he is so cute & evry one says we make a cute cuple & he thinks that to but its been months & he still says he dosent like me but he tells his best friend that how pretty i am so i dont get it do i move on or wait for him

