How Can A Women Get A Shy Guy To Ask Her Out
Posted On Mon Oct 20, 2008 By elizabeth mcclrury In Personals Forums And Topics Discussions Boards About People Expiriences Forums
i really like this guy and he is so shy. but how can you get a shy guy to ask you out anyways?
well if you are going trough the same thing you will appraciate my tips.
usually shy guys are the good ones to keep.
its often the man's role to initiate a relationship with a girl. i mean, the guy has to do all the work to get a girl right..
well, if you know a shy guy and you like him and he also likes you. you better start initiating conversations with him..
ok, by now you are probably saying: I am not going to do that!!
well if you dont, then he will get away.
you will be amazed once you get a shy dude to trust you. they will open up to you and you wont have to initiate nothing. he will treat you like a princess and love you like no one else. he will make you feel special and loving. he will only have eyes for you.
what do you think?
well if you are going trough the same thing you will appraciate my tips.
usually shy guys are the good ones to keep.
its often the man's role to initiate a relationship with a girl. i mean, the guy has to do all the work to get a girl right..
well, if you know a shy guy and you like him and he also likes you. you better start initiating conversations with him..
ok, by now you are probably saying: I am not going to do that!!
well if you dont, then he will get away.
you will be amazed once you get a shy dude to trust you. they will open up to you and you wont have to initiate nothing. he will treat you like a princess and love you like no one else. he will make you feel special and loving. he will only have eyes for you.
what do you think?
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SadAboutHer Sat Jan 23, 2010
I think its true.
I am that kind of guy, she slowly did what you said, and I asked her out. She thought it would be different, we saw each other a few times, as boyfriend and girlfriend, over Christmas break. Didn't have a REAL date, just a hang out for an hour, she dumped me. I love her, she doesn't respect me, and I'm just sad..
I am that kind of guy, she slowly did what you said, and I asked her out. She thought it would be different, we saw each other a few times, as boyfriend and girlfriend, over Christmas break. Didn't have a REAL date, just a hang out for an hour, she dumped me. I love her, she doesn't respect me, and I'm just sad..
sammi Wed Oct 21, 2009
so i this guy and i have been talking for quite sometime. when we started talking, we joked around alot. he would iniciate some of the conversations and was fairly confident and complimentary to me.
well recently we have been getting closer and now he doesnt iniciate anything. i have to text first, but he will talk once i do.
he is very social, but you can tell he holds back...that there is a shy side to him...
so what the heck is going on?
does he like me or does he just want to stay single?
and do i keep starting conversations?
im so used to the guys pursuing heavily, so im kinda confused on what to do.
help me get inside his brain!
well recently we have been getting closer and now he doesnt iniciate anything. i have to text first, but he will talk once i do.
he is very social, but you can tell he holds back...that there is a shy side to him...
so what the heck is going on?
does he like me or does he just want to stay single?
and do i keep starting conversations?
im so used to the guys pursuing heavily, so im kinda confused on what to do.
help me get inside his brain!
jen Wed Apr 29, 2009
all guys no matter what are shy around me! im not ugly so i know im not grossing them out. it's a curse! iv had boyfriends but iv asked them all out becasue they were all too shy. and now i like this really out going guy and he is shy now! i know its me now. but why?
Logan Tue Feb 03, 2009
well this guy family told me that he liked me and he always smile when he sees me. and he is very shy but when i asked him did he like me he said no, not like that. i was so shame.
tina3diane190 Fri Jan 16, 2009
tina3diane190 at myemail
hello,
how are you doing today? i hope all is well.
my name is tina, in search of a man who understand the meaning of love as trust and faith in each other rather than one who sees love as the only way of fun, but a matured man with nice vision of what the world is all about, and after reading your profile here here i took interest in you, so pleas reply me with this email tina3diane190 at myemail . i will be very happy to read your reply so that i will send my picture to you then we can start know more about each other. thanks for reading my mail and be bless.
tina diane.
tina3diane190 at myemail dot com
hello,
how are you doing today? i hope all is well.
my name is tina, in search of a man who understand the meaning of love as trust and faith in each other rather than one who sees love as the only way of fun, but a matured man with nice vision of what the world is all about, and after reading your profile here here i took interest in you, so pleas reply me with this email tina3diane190 at myemail . i will be very happy to read your reply so that i will send my picture to you then we can start know more about each other. thanks for reading my mail and be bless.
tina diane.
tina3diane190 at myemail dot com
Jamie Sat Jan 10, 2009
i have been seeing this really great guy but it is so confusing!! without a doubt when we are together he opens up and i feel confident that he likes me. the problem is when we leave our date i always have to make first contact! he responds back right away and always says how much he misses me, but i just feel like if i didn't respond first we potentially could go without talking again. personally i think he is as afraid of rejection as i am and that we both anaylize every detail... i just don't know what to do... continue making first contact and take it as a hint if he doesn't reply back - it is just frustrating playing the dating game.
Macey Fri Dec 12, 2008
i like this guy who is fine with other people but shy around me. i go up and talk to him every day but out of all people i cant get a good conversation with him. yeah i can get a few words but nothing as longe as 2 sentences. i have been told by his best friend that he likes me, so 2 weeks later i asked him out and he said "no" that left me confused. but i still continue to talk to him to keep our friendship alive. can you help me?!!!
ben Sat Dec 06, 2008
****em**** first, don't take his txt as a sign to back off. he prolly was thrilled that you noticed. and if he gets embarresed when you talk take that as a sign that he has the same feelings you do. i'm also sure he's not as clueless as you think and hes just afraid that he might be misreading the signs you give; he thinks that if he is misreading the signs and asks you out he will lose your friendship. that may not seem like a big deal to most people but to shy people don't make friends easily. so if you want to go out with a shy person either ask him yourself of get him drunk enough to ask you
****EM**** Fri Nov 28, 2008
hi elizabeth,
i totally understand what you're going through. there is a guy i like, who is really shy as well. his friends even tease him about not "having the guts to ask anyone out". i feel bad, its like their hobby to make fun of him, his looks, his hair, his grades, his views, anything and everything! i used to try to defend him, but he told me in a txt that "its just the way his friends are" and i took it as a cue to back off. however, i have tried everything from being subtle to being painfully obvious, and he still hasn't noticed that i like him. sure, we;re friends, but beyond that, he's clueless. so basically, i completely understand how frustrating this can be. he does everything you described, and he even gets embarrassed when i talk to him (heck, so do i) nervous laughter and all.
i totally understand what you're going through. there is a guy i like, who is really shy as well. his friends even tease him about not "having the guts to ask anyone out". i feel bad, its like their hobby to make fun of him, his looks, his hair, his grades, his views, anything and everything! i used to try to defend him, but he told me in a txt that "its just the way his friends are" and i took it as a cue to back off. however, i have tried everything from being subtle to being painfully obvious, and he still hasn't noticed that i like him. sure, we;re friends, but beyond that, he's clueless. so basically, i completely understand how frustrating this can be. he does everything you described, and he even gets embarrassed when i talk to him (heck, so do i) nervous laughter and all.
HalfCorruptRonin Wed Oct 29, 2008
hi i'm a shy guy. i asked out 6 girls before and they all said no to me. i'm not bad looking face = ok, body = good, eyelashes and hair get compliments. but to get one of us to ask us you out is really hard. i usually cannot ask out more than 3 girls a year. i get kinda down when i get turned down it takes me a few months to get over it. and yes you are right we shy guys intend to treat ladies well, so don't abuse please! if a girl wanted to get me to go out with her all she would have to do is ask, i wouldn't turn down any girl. seriously, even if i didn't like her, i'd have to at least talk with her a little bit and somehow become friends. but you need to do the work! find out what he likes if you two have similar interests thats an excellent way to have a conversation. and you will either have to ask out on the first few dates, be very straight forward and do it somewhere where there aren't to many people, i've had girls ask me out in front of their friends and wasn't sure whether she was playing a joke on me or not. if you wait for him to try it will take lots of small talk... running in to each other and somewhere between 3-8 months for him to make a move. we aren't to clever when it comes to women and have a hard time believing a beauty would pursue any of us. good luck hope you have a nice relationship. let me know if you have any other questions.
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