I am in my 50s as well as the man I am in love with. I feel a soul connection. We have so much in common. We both have been hurt & I was the one at first that didn't want a relationship. Something happened & I fell completely in love with this man. He has been a policeman for 32 yrs & his first wife died when they were married & only in thier 20s with 2 children. Now that I am head over hills, he is being somewhat distant. I know we are meant to be together but I am so out of practice with this dating thing, help!