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He was my boyfriend before he get married and we had little arguments we take a brake and after 5 day I hard from my friend he got married he said it was arranged marriage he wanna be with me he said he love me. But it seems like he care about her more that he care about me I couldn't stop seen him I tried I tied a lot I don't wanna be with him anymore. But I couldn't stop, I don't wanna have an affair with a married man but it feels like she tooks him away from me.

He said to me that after I graduated to my college degree we will be together then so now we're waiting.

I do believe I have met my twin soul. And no a Twin Soul will not leave his wife for his twin soul. The guilt won't allow him to. If indeed he is my twin soul though, I already know that the way for us to be together is to let his marriage run its course & stay as far back & away as possible. The married man I've been seeing I actually met when we were little kids. He had a crush on me then, but I didn't like him. We reconnected a month before he got married & I think we just caught up a little too late. Two months after he got married his wife got pregnant & unfortunately he didn't realize he was in love with me until a few months later. He feels as though he should stay married for his son, but he continues to live single.
To me a marriage needs to be felt from the heart to be real. Living a fake life & fake marriage is crazy to me.
I am divorced & I know how it feels to be cheated on & I know how it feels to be in a loveless marriage. I would never want to be with a man that I knew didn't love me & was only staying for our kids which is why my husband stayed with me. He was more worried about how bad of a person & a bad father he would look to his family, than he was worried about fixing the problems in our marriage. In fact the very words that came out of his mouth were "How do you think this is going to look, you divorcing me when we have two small kids". I said "really, is that all you're worried about is how you look to outsiders? You don't care about us being miserable together for the rest of our lives?" Even with counseling our marriage went no where. My husband didn't think he needed to change anything about himself. He is what you call "a narcissist" and isn't capable of changing according to our therapist.
If a man really loves you, yes he will find a way out of his marriage, but it's not likely to happen as long as he knows you're willing to still see him & give him # s e x. You can remain friendly when he calls, but do not agree to continue seeing him until he shows you signed divorced papers.
I believe our purpose in life is to be happy & at peace. And, yes I do feel that everyone should be with there soulmate. I see so many people stuck in miserable marriages for the sake of there kids. And, I'm totally against that. So many women desperately want a man that they will continue to hang on to a man & use pregnancies to trap a man that they know in there heart doesn't love them.
Ladies, please if you know a man doesn't love you & you have to use kids to make him stay home, than do yourself a favor & stop! You will never be happy together. A lot of men feel too guilty to leave, they will show you with there actions that they don't want to be there. Set them free for your own sanity & move on to find your own true happiness. True love is what will change this world for the better. And, that's bigger & more important than any fake marriage.
My parents stayed together in an unhealthy relationship for 30 years. They split up for one year when I was 13 & when my mom told us that she was taking him back for us we told her we don't want him to come back, so if you take him back do it for yourself, not us. You would be surprised at what kids can see & how many kids out there that would rather see there parents happy separately, than miserable together.

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He broke up with me crying saying he couldn't commit to me right now. So I called his wife and told her we were together for 2 years. This was a month ago. I do miss him tried to call I felt bad calling but he totally cut me off like I never existed.

My situation is similar. He is my sole mate and best friend. For 10 months be begged me to wait for him because he was getting divorced. He even moved out and hired a lawyer. He was having a hard time being away from his kids and considered going back and being unhappy just to be with his kids again. Suddenly one day he confessed to her and stopped all communication with me. I am devastated and angry.

I contemplate talking to his wife because I am sure he wasn't completely honest with her. I feel we were both lied to and used. Yes, it is vindictive and petty but I feel he deserves it.

Advice on if I should tell her everything. If you are someone that did tell the wife do you regret it?

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have been in a relationship with a Guy for soo many years and all of a sudden he got a lady pregnant and married her without telling me now he is saying he loves me and that it was a mistake butt he love the lady.

I feel like I'm dying inside. The pain just won't go away. I needed to read all of this and keep praying for God's help.
Thank you . Blessings

Ive been with a married narcissist lying cheating man for 2 yrs now. He goes every 2 mnths to see his wife & son in mexico ..He has No conscience, no guilt. How can he love & respect his wife? No way!!

A man is not a purse you steal from another woman. His wife is HIS moral responsibility not yours. It is a very humane idea, but totally unrealistic - if you are passionately in love with the dude, it is flat out impossible to think about some mysterious woman you have never met. Nobody has the right to tell you want to think or how to feel. "Think of his wife" sounds like take off the most precocious piece of jewelry and give it to a stranger People in love have a very hard time thinking logically in general. True, statistics illustrate the fact that relationships born in infidelity are not likely to be blissful. Idealizing the guy and blaming the wife would be a mistake, if he shows disrespect to her and complains - you have a good reason to be worried . We admire men to the point we are unable to think properly and at the same time objectify them. There is no "she stole my husband!" - if your husband wants to cheat, it is beyond your control. Going through his things and spying on his e-mails and phone are just unnecessary torture and a blow to your dignity. Wives! Be attractive, be fun, practice your #love- techniques, wear make up - you will be safe. Mistresses! don't beat yourself up, don't make excuses, do your best to understand whether or not he is unhappy at home or has low moral standards and compassion levels. If you want him to death it's your job to understand what he is looking for and provide him with that. Don't push. Don't talk. Don't nag. Work on showing him that he will be happier with you. Ladies - don't blame and hate each other for that conflict of interests. Use your natural female charm superpowers that makes any man from puberty to senility easily manipulated. Please please don't rely on male morality or logic! We all know guys have 2 important organs and only enough blood supply for one. Since a human brain is uncontrollable, make sure the blood is in the place you can easily handle.Nobody is happy about that, but denying human nature and its unpleasant sides will not help anyone.

i love this man i have being with him for 3 years and he's married with no kids and am just 20 but i want him so bad. we both feel the same way about each other . i need help without him am stress out and cries a lot don't judge me just help. i need to move on but it feels difficult

I am pregnant with twins and when we first started talking again he told me he was divorcing and it was 2 weeks away from being finalized. I say again because he and i have known eachother since we were 13 but had not seen one another for several years after we gradusted, due to me going my way and him going his. He wrote me after all the years of not seeing or speaking to one another (not on purpose just had seperate lives) and invited me out. I said i thought u were married? He said no we r divorced. So i hung out w him and sparks flew. Then find out they are "almost" divorced...but now that im pregnant. his almost ex wife (he has 2 precious kids w) wants to try and work on things once she found out about me...he doesnt want to break up his family, but also is supportive of me. I am so thankful for these babies growing in me but i am having a hard time with not knowing whats going to happen. Im always working on me and what i csn do to improve. Some days are great other days are lonely and kinda scarry and confusing. I want to do the right thing...i am thinking that is leaving him alone completely until he is fully divorced. I feel i have been a little selfish becoming upset when i long for him to be w me so im not doing all this alone... any advice??

glad your blog helps. I have a boyfriend who has three girlfriends and I'm one of them and I just want him to leave them and love only me.really need help what can I do

I know I am not the only one here. All of us here already had these kind of experience. i need your word of strength sisters. Love is not what we can plan. I had 2 relationships with married mans as well. i dont know what attracts me to them. But what i leart is, they wont leave the wife.
Recently I met my ex boyfriend after 18 years, and old flame got sparked. I know I have to end it ASAP... n I tried many times before, but I just could not do it. Recently the wfe found out, and he don't want to give his wife divorce , even when the wife is insisting. He keep saying he wants to leave the country and bring the kids with him, and so many other plans. But it is obvious, none is includig me in it. This hurts me alot. I feel so sad, how could I fall for him. And when I try to breakfree, It is not as easy as it seems. I am trying very hard.. And I feel like kicking him also...

Thank you I needed to read this. I too felt for a married man his wife file for divorce in April 2015 but supposedly she is dismissing the case. I haven't seen him for 3 weeks but yet we kept in touch by messaging each other. I feel like such a fool. He texted one night wanting to see me because he misses me and that he still love me I told him I couldn't see him anymore but he insisted I gave in and told him to come over we made love that night and not only that he stayed with me. I still love him and feel that he used my happiness. I'm just heartbroken.

hi vanessa... i am in your situation too. Met my 18 years long lost ex boyfriend. though i know he is married, i could not resist him. we hooked up back. within 2 months, his wife found out. and now he keep saying he wants to leave the country . The wife want to divorce him but she wants to speak with me first it seems. I know I have to end this. I am so out of these kind of relationship, but it is never easy. I hope i can get enough strength to take a proper decision...

Thank you...(tears in my eyes). I will tell my story in a later post.

I deeply love the man I am currently living witb but, unfortunately his wife is still living in his home. He says she must be there because she works and pays his entire house note, and even though he works extremely hard at his job unfortuantely he does not make enough money to cover his note. At the time he purchased this home, his wife paid the note for him. I feel like the situation is a very desperate one and do not know what to do anymore. I am currently unemployed as I now receive disability payments due to an accident I had and am currently divorced myself.

I been w mine a year and a half we've never had #love- . We love each other . But he won't cheat he's a good man . I don't know if he will leave I know I make him happy I know he is my soul mate . If he doesn't leave I'll move on I'm not wasting my life but I do know he is the love of my life no regrets in that

I like the article...you can't force .anybody to do anything...but when people fall in love, think with their heart and do # silly # things without considering repercussions.

LOL. You're full of # manure #!

That was a true result. But after 7 year's of the affair its hard. but it ended 8 weeks ago

Iam tying to end mine but to no avail. Tried many times but I always see myself back in the same position eventhough he doesn't love me. Wishing I have someone to talk to.

My manager is married has a 3 month old daughter I have a 3 month old son we've been sneaking to makeoit and hangout for 4 months havent had #love- yet but we're both unhappy in our relationships what should i do?

All right, this is quite a story I have so get your coffee ready. :) When I was 14 I went to my high school basketball to watch a boy I liked play. While there my best friend saw a really cute guy under the basket goal on crutches and begged me to go get his number. I thought this was an awesome opportunity to make the boy I like jealous. I walked down there and talked to him and got his number. It worked, I made the boy I liked jeaolus. Well later that night my friend told me she didn't want his number and told me to keep it, she wanted to talk to someone else... haha oh the young days.. I decided to keep it but didn't call it... About 3 months later I was going through my phone and saw his name and decided to call him, I was bored, why not? We started talking all the time... He was amazing! We could talk for hours and I was starting to fall in love with him... I didn't get to see him much because I couldn't date, so I had the wonderful opportunity of falling in love with his personality, his voice, his laugh... Time passed... It was on and off.. When I was single, he was't wanting a relationship... vice versa. I met my husband, we started dating when I was 16. We ended up going to college together and my ex attended there as well. I wasn't much of a partier but he was so I knew if I went out, I would get to see him. One night, I was really drunk and all I wanted was him... go figure... we met up and he took such great care of me. We ended up making out and that was it. I knew he wanted more but even my drunk self knew I had a faithful boyfriend and I already screwed up, I couldn't screw up more. Time kept passing... We would talk and we wouldn't. We had such a strong, passionate connection. I cannot explain it! He feels the same. Well I got married in 2012 and before I married, my ex messaged me if I was really happy and am I sure I want to go through with it. I told him yes, but deep down I wanted him to come save me... Which was such a #silly idea... he can't read minds... Well a year later he got married. We didn't talk for about 6 months which is the longest time we've gone without talking. He wanted me to see him this past Christmas while his wife was gone, and now we live in the same town so I felt like okay, okay, nothing will happen we will hang out as friends... and we did! Nothing happend; we laughed, we played, we flirted a little... I felt super guilty, because I am a follower of God. I love God with my whole being, and even though I am a Christian, I do make mistakes, I do sin, I do have temptations. I have prayed many times and I just don't get a answer. I continued talking to him, he was really drunk one nigt and told me he has only wanted me for my body, since we have never had #love-. I cried and cried and cried. I love this man. I love him so much! I dream of him every night. I think of ways to make him happy. I wouldn't care if we had no money to our name, if we had each other, I would be happy. I want to be with him. It's not like my marriage is awful, I just have loved this man since I was 14, and I am now 24. We still talk but I know he wants more, as in #love-. I told him I couldn't have #love- until he made a decision what he wanted. I cannot cheat on my husband, even though I am lusting *which is sinful*. Please help me! What do I do? I love this man more than I love myself, or anyone in this world... but never as much as God. Thanks!

I really like this guy he told me he wasn't married just living with her but on his Facebook page says he is married why must he lie to me he treats me good

I like your comments,I also knew that he will never leave his wife for me bcoz we have affair with him before his marriage,yet he took marriage wz other girl. I also want to leave him but it is not in my hands.

I did the test just for fun, it was useless and I knew what the response would be before taking it

Well said....my boyfriend is older than i am.relate

My situation is very different we are nt in physical relation and he also not in. Any relation with his wife he still love care me and my children ....

I have been involved with him since I was 18. I'm 22 now and still seeing him occasionally. He just won't let me go. And I try avoid seeing him. But he keeps trying. We have similar friends too. So I have to get reminded of him. I understand his wife staying with him. I would too if he ever cheated on me. I've tried dating other people but no one compares to him. I am so mad at myself for ever getting in a situation like this. My life is kind of defined by it.. People around our area know and she knows so im always in fear of having to face her. It's sad she thinks it over. I just wish I could understand why he does it .. He is a really good guy it just doesn't fit him to hurt two women like he does. In reality I'll never be with him. But it's so hard to except that and move on. He is one of a kind. The most down to earth guy I know. He is perfect in every way for me. Except for the big obvious reason we aren't together well for real anyway. My advice is no matter how good looking that guy is or how much talk have in common don't ever get involved with a mm , it's really a mess and ruins your life only. He doesn't get as much shame for it. Really people look down on you more than they do him. You will be left with him and only him. But the sad thing is you won't even have him. It's not fair right? Yeah but you did this. I was so young and unaware what would really happen .. One choice has ruined my life. For him I did this. I could go on and on about him and me. But I'll end it here. Unfortunately bad doings aren't going to end with a happy endings. They aren't meant to.

I'm 20 years old, and for the last 2 year's a married man has pursed me. I always flirted with him and wanted him badly but I was in a relationship of my own so never took things further then just flirting. When I left my boyfriend I told the married man and he kissed me an ran away. He said he wasn't sure if I would hit him lol. He is about 33 very attractive and wealthy. Really sweet and smart too, we could talk for hours. So he and I slept together once, because when he kissed me neither one of us could stop. He says things are fine with the wife, just no #love-, or intricacy. So I know I was used for #love-, but I'm ok because I just got out of a 3 year relationship myself an don't want commitment. I can tell he likes me a lot tho, two years now, my friends have joked he was a stalker. I like him a lot too but I'm not ready to be with him but I feel like if I let this continue I'm going to want him to leave her and everythings gonna get ugly. He is older but I like that. I just feel weird because I'm pretty but we don't come from the same social class. I don't know if even if we did try I'd be good enough. I manage a store, and make ok money but his wife's an account. Funny cuz I'm going to college to be an auditor. any advice? I just feel he is a really good man and want to give him everything he doesn't get from her, regardless where that puts me. His last wife passed and he is an awesome father an provider, an obviously isn't happy or he wouldn't have been chasing me for two years now.

Am 18yrz ov age ad a mistress to a 26yrs, bt am pregnant coz ma husband lied to mi dat he wasnt married ad i felt in his trap bt wat should i do?

His kids are grown and all married so are mine.... He uses the grandkids as an excuse... he's left her once before for me but I blew it I started seeing someone else at that time so he went back to his wife. I stopped seeing the other guy and now our relationship has gotten stronger.... He really goes out of his way to see me and support me financially. She found out about us before. We're cousins in family but not blood I'm adopted. That's what makes this situation hard because we know it will hurt our family's! So my situation is different! We love and adore each other...... I'll keep you posted as to what happens.

Thanks for your advice believe I will be hurt for a month after I will be fine. Really feel blessed getting advice so early.

My man left his wife with 3 kids for me

I met a man sometime ago,we became friends and used to hang out a lot..I found out he was married d day I went thru his fone, I confronted him and he said we should talk about it some other day...two days later,he asked to see me so he could explain things to me..I told him I couldn't continue with him because he was married and he begged me not to end the relationship..so we continued...he took me to his house twice and I saw some pictures... wedding pictures of himself and his wife...I wanted to cry...he saw d look on ma face but didn't say anything...I went home that night and couldn't sleep..I texted him that I couldn't continue and he said I should think over it and not make any rash decision...I slept over it and d next day, we talked..he told me how hard it was for him too and dat he really liked me..he said the only way out was for me to get pregnant for him..I asked why and he said Dats d only way he could marry me since he couldn't just decide to get a second wife..I thought about being a second wife at such a tender age and I said No..he said then that was as far as we could go,that he couldn't continue with me if d relationship wasn't going to lead to marriage..my heart got shattered in pieces...he said if he continues,he will never touch his wife again as he has already lost #love- drive for his wife and dat I had to choose between getting pregnant for him and marrying him or never seeing him again...I begged him but he said there was no other way...I really love him and I know he does too but I just wish dere was another way to it...#crying.

I was with a married man I never tried to take him from his wife. He told me they were in a open marriage and he even called her and put her on speaker phone at work. She confirmed it was open only if women pay in my mind I'm thinking who takes care of another woman husband, but I wanted him and used game to get him without paying it worked as time went on his wife start stalking me and tried all kinds of things to make him leave me alone. Then she got desperate she installed spyware on his phone and computer she took the information we talked about and said I told her she has the kind were it has a microphone were you can hear him talking to anyone outside. She even had apps where she was putting my number in texting her own phone saying that I text her. she said all kinds of lies she even had a app that send messages on a automatic timer as if I was texting him and I wasn't when I spoke with him he said I was texting his phone and I wasn't. I left it alone because she was stalking me and lying on me but she finally made him believe the lies and she can thank spyware, but it doesn't hurt me just makes me think she is a desperate women

Hi, I find your article very insightful. I started an affair with a married man 30 years older than me. He made me feel very special in many ways. To make things more complicated he is my boss's boss and I'm married. I have fallen for him hard and he tells me he has too, but through out the affair, he would tell me over and over he will never leave his wife of 39 years for me. I kept hoping he would and that he didn't mean it so I kept seeing him. At first when we met, it was to talk but then it got physical quickly. After we had #love-, we stopped being physical and just talked about our feelings for each other. He kept asking me to trust him completely and how he wanted to build on our emotional connection. Well, a couple of weeks ago, we met up for the day this time and little did I know, but my husband put a tracker in my car. I met my boss's boss in a car park where I left my car and went in his car where we spent the day having a picnic in the woods. That day, we agreed to end it as he couldn't leave his wife for me. I went along with it not really believing it would stop and by the end of the day when he dropped me off at my car, the car was missing. My husband took the car, our 3 year old son, my wedding ring I took off the night before, my credit cards, froze the bank accounts and served me notice saying I had 7 days to move out. He told my family and friends and his family and friends and gave them all copies of the text messages and photographs my boss and I sent each other (they were explicit). My husband had found out about the affair a few days before by going through my phone and kept it hidden so he could plan how to get rid of me. That day was the lowest point of my life. My boss's boss had to give me money for a taxi to get home and he went straight home and told his wife. The next day, he called me and said he didn't want to be with me, even if his wife never took him back. My husband spent £2000 on solicitor fees with my credit cards to try and get full custody of my son and my boss's boss told the directors at work about our affair. I was potentially facing loosing my job, my home, my son, even my dog as my husband took him too, in debt with no way of accessing money from the bank. My family and friends turned their back on me. I actually contemplated suicide at one point. It's been 2 weeks since then, I have my son back, I'm still at home and I still have a job. My husband and I are amicable now but I still have to see my boss's boss at work every day. It's hard but I'm getting through it. I still love my boss's boss and I don't know how I can after all that has happened and he told me he loves me too today. I wish I could go back in time and undo everything. He is still with his wife, she made him sell his car as form of punishment. I'm so confused with what to do right now. I'm 27 and I do want to be with him but I feel now that there is no hope.

Do these things ever end happily ever after? It feels like a fairy tail at the time. If only life was simpler

very difficult to cut. it hurts so much

My boyfriend of two yrs cheated on me while i was 6 mos pregnant. He married d girl 1 month after my delivery. I got to find it out by accident.he never told me.
Two weeks after d wedding he visited me and our daughter. I dont want to see him anymore and want him to disappear in our lives.but he doesnt want to break up with me. Now he was sorry and regrets marrying another woman.pls help

i was in a long term marriage that ended because my husband had a girlfriend and had always been a serial adulterer. a few months prior to my divorce i met a married man on the internet. he was also in a long term miserable loveless marriage and assured me in a matter of a few months he was leaving.. not wanting to be the "other woman" we became pen pals.. he helped me in so many ways emotionally, even providing legal council as he despised what my husband did to me.. he knew everything about me and shared many stories about his life, children and marriage.. i read everything i could get my hands on regarding these types of relationships with married men..he assured me he was not the usual suspect and convinced me he was in love and would never hurt me.. after six months we finally met.. he was a million times better than i imagined.. he described his wife as an ungrateful, fat , lazy drinking train wreck.. claimed he left her for eight years several years after they married but returned to protect his children from her abuse.. he said he had everything in life but nothing. he was well educated, highly successful, extremely wealthy, caring, generous in every way. claimed his adult children supported him in leaving his loveless, #love-less marriage.. i felt he was a gift from GOD.. i had never loved a man like that in my life.. soon after physically meeting things started to change.. he denied my observations telling me he'd respect my opinion if i were to end our relationship ...he'd be heartbroken and disappointed. again he assured me it was a matter of months before he physically left his marital home.. i managed to get through the holidays ALONE and felt so lonely.. he urged me to have minor surgery that i kept delaying.. on the same day as my surgery he claimed his wife began treatment for a life long illness that could last six months.. he felt he couldn't leave her until her treatment ended.. he continued to call and email endlessly denying that he was stringing me along.. he wanted to see me again after a month of making me wait.. the day i got home from surgery i began following my instincts. i was exhausted, and in pain, on pain killers and drove myself to and from surgery alone as he drove his wife to and from her treatment.. his actions spoke louder than his words.. i wrote to him that night that i felt like a caged bird and that he had nothing to offer me.. the next morning i retracted everything . i never heard from him again.. he never responded to my emails or calls.. i was so shocked i actually checked the obituaries!!! he disappeared.. i was conned.. eight months after not hearing a word from him his wife and daughters called me.. his wife wanted to know what type of relationship we had.. i told her that i believed it was one of love and friendship and emotional not physical.. i told her he intended to leave her.. she told me that here husband never once left her and that they had an excellent #love- filled marriage.. she did admit to being greatly overweight and indeed having hepatitus c since birth.. her daughters screamed at me calling me every vile word one can think of.. obviously they didn't support their father leaving his marriage. these calls were followed by the man who lied and broke my heart.. he threatened that if i ever spoke to any member of his family he would have me legally restrained.. i reminded him of the thousands of emails he wrote me which i saved that would prove my innocence.. he was like dr. jeckyl and mr. hyde, a coward who got caught.. i'm still in pain and i can only imagine the pain caused to his family.. i'm sure he's denying the entire affair. i'm sure i wasn't the first nor will i probably be the last.. i believe he's a seasoned adultrer, a narcissist.. in retrospect i fell for every classical married man's lies.. it has caused me great shame, lots of money in therapy, my self esteem and time.. i was 56 at the time; he was 62.. recently a family photo of my ex friend and his family was published.. they look like one happy family!!!!!

he has a kid with me and was with me before her his been with me 14 years not that easy to leave

Thanks for sharing your story. I am dating a married man for a year now. He says he loves me and if only I say yes to him he will leave his family. I don't want be a home wrecker. I love him but I am sure I can find my dream man.

well we were engaged to marry he went to the army , and to took a leave to come home and marry me,, my mother lied to him , said she didnt know where i was, kept all my letters i was taking car of my ill grandmotherr in another state, taught he had died in desert storm, then found him on face book after 28 years, i love him, we are not intimate, we just never fell out of love.

i am very happy today the man that help me get my ex husband back to me

you might think all this is crazy, but at one point or another, you will have to pay the consequences for your own action. specially when a child is involve. think about you children,

I've been dating a married man for three years he has small kids. He feels obligated the wife found about me and she stalks me he will not let me go when I try. She's aware he loves me she seen it in his phone she calls me stalks my social media. He says he's not letting me go. We're soul mates were connected on all levels. I leave him alone he sweet talks me back. In trying my hardest to leave him alone this is the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I love him so much. He texts me all day even when he's home. I'm not hidden every one at his job knows me I met all his friends and several family members. We both love each other. I have to find a way to cut him off until he leaves. So confused

Yes the questions were helpful in the answers as well. Just would've liked to of had more scenario options. I knew this guy in college so we have a bit of a background

I had an affair with a married man for 12 years, but I didn't want to keep him. He did want to leave her in the beginning, but when he said he would never marry again I felt well then you will just be a booty call and that is all he was to me.

That is the # silly #est quiz I've ever seen.

Thank you all for sharing your comments and experiences. I feel that it is all true. I have been dating a married man for 2 years. It has been an emotional roller coaster. He has the most ugliest personality someone could began to imagine. I don't love him but I care for him. I feel he's using me. When he goes away on trips, i would think he would call more but he doesn't. In fact, he calls less. I don't push it, i leave him alone because I know he's not mine but it hurts