I am a plus size woman, after 16 years of marriage I have found it very hard to try to date again. I have been told how beautiful I am, "I really do not see it". I can't say I have been made fun of but I have felt like people are staring when I have been on dates with seemingly perfect shaped men. I can't help but wonder if the perfectly shaped man could really be attracted to a big woman. Would he be willing to get serious? Do men really like big women? These are questions worth an answer.