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this is my story about my wife and how she treats my son and how i feel about it that sometimes i feel she is mean to my son and i dont understand why she was never like this and i feel sorry for my son
why my wife is so mean to my son?

i dont know whats happening. my wife has been mean to my son lately. i guess she's mean, but i know she is just correcting my son because he doesn't listen. when i was a kid, i remember my parents were really mean to me, i would get in trouble a lot because i forget to do things like pick up after myself. now that my son is 4 years old, i see the same thing happening to my son. it breaks my heart to see it, because i want to stop her and tell her not to do it anymore.

i spoke to her about how i feel, and we ended up arguing with each other about the subject. so the next day she told me to watch for my son and see how it feels. so i started the day by making him breakfast, when i told him to go sit down, he kept stalling and i had to repeat it to him 4 times to go sit down. i realize why my wife gets aggressive with him, because if you are nice, he doesn't listen.

i dont know what to do. i can see its affecting my wife. her attitude is different. i want to see her happy again. i guess i should be happy because she cares about our son and that's why she is always correcting him. but i can't help feel sorry for the kid.

im wondering if other dads are going through the same thing or am i alone in this? i want to help my wife and my son. i just wish could find a balance.

can you give me some advice, or am i just crazy?
Jess
Try looking into some parenting styles that are democratic. Allow your child to eat when and where he wants to. Clean up after him, but teach him when he is older how to clean up, and teach him why you want him to clean up. If he doesn't agree, let it go or think of a better reason. The most important thing is to raise a lifelong friend.
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