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Hi there, my name is tom; I am looking for a nice woman to meet. I prefer plus size or big women. I am serious, for about two years now, I’ve wanted to date or meet a girl who is overweight. Many of my friends discriminate me because I go out with "fat women" as they call these ladies. They tease me about the movie 40 year old virgin. But I don't care, I find that plus size women are very interesting, if they only gave them a chance, the would see that all women are the same with a big heart. Anyway, I really would like to meet plus size women out there someday that I can meet.

if you are reading my post, you are probably wondering.. why is this guy after a plus size girl. there must be something wrong with him.. i hear that all the time. plus size girls even think im weird cuz i ask them out, at first they dont trust me and they think of me as a pervert who only wants sex, but its that kind of attitude that keeps me away from making any commitment. so they push me away. i dont know if its a confidence issue or not, but they find it hard to believe that a normal joe like me could like big girls. i wish i can tell you why i like big girls. i do have to admit tho. im really attracted for plus size females, but they misunderstand me. thinking all i want is their bodies, but all i want is their love.

The other day while i was at starbucks, i was having coffee with my friend and i noticed a cute plus size gal walked in. Then my stupid clown friends started to tease me about going after the hunt. he was loud too, so loud that the girl heard what he said. she even looked at our table. i turn red. i wish there was a hole in the ground so i can hide in there. haahha. after like 10 minutes, i felt bad because of my jerk friends and i walked over to her, i said hello and introduced myself. i apologized. she said it was cool. so we started talking. as i talked to her more and more, i got to know her more. at that moment i wanted to proof to my friends what jerks they were so i asked her to come sit with us. she hesitated for a minute but i convinced her. we sat our table. she was very funny and smart. she knew alot about fantasy baseball, apparently, her brother was into that so she cough on some of it. my good friend Ed who teased me at Starbucks, said how stupid he felt for making fun of me and her, so i told him that he should judge anyone just because of how they look. what caught me by surprise, what that couple of weeks later, we found out that he was going out with her. wow!!!

you know, it hasn't been easy for me tho. i have my share of rejections by plus size gals. one gal really broke my feelings. I was taking my lunch at the launch area, i asked her if i could sit in her table, she said "f*ck off jerk, im not interested in your cock" - wow!!! i was like, what the hell. but if you knew me, you know i dont give up so easy. so i sat down anyway. as i ate my sandwich i stared at her. finally she cracked and said, what do you want from me. i said.. nothing, i just want to sit here with you. she asked, why? - i said, because i like you. she asked.. why do you like me? - i said, cuz of your dimples.. she smiled and said.. 'shut up' - i said. no really, then i showed her my dimples too and she smiled. after we broke the ice, i asked her why she was so rude to me. she explained that all her life she has been made fun of so she's gotten to the point that she doesn't trust any guy anymore so she rather just push guys off instead of getting hurt. i didnt' know what to say to that. but i assured her, i was not here to hurt her. just to keep her company.

if you are a plus size gal, please tell me about you? i would like it if you can share your experiences with guys. i want to get to know more about big girls so i can find a woman like you. please, reply to my post here, it will only take you a minute and we can learn from each other.

thanks.