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i really want to know the secrets, cause there is this shy guy that i like, that looks at me, and i can feel him looking. and when im around hell talk to this girl but glance at me, so i want to know if hes playing hard to get, or sending me some kind of signal or whatevr.

he's just playing you. if he's with another girl while staring at you, becareful, cuz he sounds like a player to me..

k look it goes like this... i like this guy that was in my math class last semester named sean and a lot of friends of mine tell me he likes me a lot but the guy i like is mad because i was at that time dating someone he knows and is supposable his friends with. i’m not sure if he knows that i like him and that i’m now single... one of my friends says he will try to hook us up but i’m not sure if i should trust dating again because i keep getting hurt in the end...he has only said one thing to me since we’ve known each other and he said it exactly like this "don't worry i’m not gonna steal you're pencil case..." because ppl have fun stealing my stuff for but yea... why would he tell me that? at times he would go at the front of the class because it was where i sat and he would sit in the back of the class all the time but he would go and sharpen his pencil like 5 times in a period and look at me every time. i’m not sure what i should do because my ex told me he might have a girl friend now and my ex gave me his phone number too and i got my friend to call him but she always gets the answering machine and i’m not sure if i’m being tricked or something like that ... how do i really know if he likes me?

ok, i like this boy named john and i dont know if he likes me. he is really shy, like at bowling he only talks to about 5 people for short periods of time, and me i talk to atleast 15 people for long periods of time. and when i walk past him or see him from a short distance he freezes and looks at me and when i see him i look at him and then he looks away. i told him i liked him a couple months ago but then i started liking someone else so i paid no attention to john. so i dont know if he still thinks i like him, he isnt that smart to know that i get dressed up and stuff to see him bowl so he wouldnt think i would like him. all i know is he stares at me and when i look at him he looks into my eyes for 2 seconds then turns away and like it looks like he has the tinest smile and blush when he looks at me, i need some hints and help!!!

what you did to that guy sucks. really, if you consider yourself a nice girl, don't play games with that guy. he sounds like a sweet guy. you shouldn't play with people's feelings. from what you say here, it sounds like he still likes you, so if you really like him, then ask him again and let him decide whether or not he likes you back. stop guessing what he thinks and ask him how he feels about you and respect (accept) his dedision if its not the answer you were looking for.

i've worked with this guy named josh for about a month. he's a musician and falls under the mysterious category a little more than the shy category, even though he's quiet around people he doesn't know (with the exception of customers). i really like him and i get this vibe that he likes me, but i can't be sure that it's my wishful thinking that's giving it to me. he stops and talks to me sometimes and other times he talks to me in funny voices or sings. but then there are days when he barely speaks to me at all. please tell me your secret.

i don't think there's secret, but who knows, what i do know is that if you like this guy, i would try to get close to him, what i mean by that is that you need to talk to him more. if you really care about a guy, you want to do some work yourself, can't expect him to notice you in if you don't give me time. so i would tell you to talk to him more and get to know him more.

here are some tips i found for you

* I think the most obvious signs a guy likes you is when he says the dumbest things just to keep talking. I say this because a guy I really like does that to you but he doesn't want to admit that he likes me. Because he thinks I will laugh. Also if a guy tries to hold your hand or starts talking dirty as a joke its totally obvious.

* one of the most obvious signs that a guy likes you is that he will just always stare at you even if they don't know you, they will just stare at you from a distance hoping that you will notice them

* Most likely a guy will just stare at you a lot of the time and when you look his way he just stops looking at you until you look away. He will always ask only you for stuff they really don't need. Just so that they can get yur attention or he just wants to small talk or even make you laugh!

* I agree!! when a boy likes you, you notice them always staring at you, looking until they notice your looking to so they know that you are intrested at least, I also think when a boy calls you at random times or calls you a few times a day just to say hi, means that he is intrested. it also makes you feel good, I think its the sweetest thing.

* when a boy likes to play around a lot and glance his eye at you a lot even when your looking. he makes up nicknames and picks on you for fun because he nos it will be a funny joke and not serious to make you mad. when your angry he will feel sad for you and tell you he's sorry if he bothered u. they also will take up for u.

* HE WILL RESPECT YOU A WANT TO KEEP IT REAL ABOUT IT ALL. HE'LL ALSO TELL YOU THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF.BUT NEVER SAY IT DIRESPECTFULLY.

* yeah agreeing with the last message.. stop stereotyping guys. lol. not everyone is going to make dirty jokes or try to hold your hand. the biggest thing you should look for is respect, and that he is nice to you. cause really, other than that, what else can you want from a boy at the beginning...?

* I think if a boy likes you he'll be touchy-feely or he'll like keep "accidentally" bumping into you just to touch you.

* I also think a boy will play stupid when he's around you looking like a fool but he just really wants to impress you.

* Guys will also act hard when there around a girl they like or over protective of you.

* you'll know that a boy likes if he starts following you wherever you go and always making eye contact

* he'll find any way possible to glance at you three times a day or stare at you a lot. if you catch him in the act he might prolong the gaze(if he's not shy) and other times he'll turn away until you stop looking at him and if you look at the corner of your eyes you will find him taking another glance at you again.

* He looks at you a lot and then turns away quickly or lookin down is a good sign, he may "accidentally" bump into you. His pupils dialate when he talks to you. When you talk to him he seems to be hanging on to every word...

* you will know that a boy likes you when he loves to play with your hair and really annoys you that much... repeat those words you asked them even their not at all funny!!!

* he'll use the any excuse to touch you.. like if you're wearing a necklace he'll move closer and grab it to "look at the necklace" or he'll play with a tie on your shirt or a ring.. anything to get close to you

* he play fights with you

* when he's talking to you he'll touch your arm or put his hand on your shoulder

* he always makes eye contact with you.. even when you're not talking he'll just look at you and smile.. and he can't stop smiling

* he says stupid things to keep the conversation going

* he'll tease you playfully

* if you're going to the movies he'll choose a scary movie over a comedy or anything else.. scary movies are an excuse to cuddle :p

* One sure fire that you can tell if a boy likes you or not is. If you are in a bad mood he will try anyhing to make you smile. Also he will try and get close to you even when you are crowds away. Or at least he will try and catch your eye.

* I've found out that if a man likes you, he'll act nervous around you sometimes or always try to be around you.

* he might act slightly jealous when you're talking to or about another guy...and then he'll want to know ALL about him so he can try and work out if he's got competition. and i agree with the whole teasing and play fighting thing, and if he accidentally hurts your or annoys you he'll be really sorry and use it as and excuse to get a hug, lol. overall, he'll be nice to you and make you feel good :)

* I think one of the ways that guys do show us they like us is... to be mean to us.. you know like they did in grade school. I have a man right now that is sooooo arguemenative with me, just for no reason. Just to argue... He comes over to you at work and picks at me, for no reason. He is always looking at me. I will look at him, he will look at me, then smile. He is just one of those guys that is just like a little kid. PICK and be MEAN. Several people have said if they didn't know better they would swear we were married!!! We fight like an old married couple. He says I frusterate him, and vise versa. Its crazy! But I know he likes me. He just can't admit it. Some guys are that way, you know if he likes you if he throws rocks at you... LOL or pulls your hair, LOL anyway. Thats just one way to tell...

* if he says 'hi' to you, multiple times, and its just to get your atention. he enjoys you looking at him.

* Guys will find any excuse to touch you. Like if they point at something in the distance they will grab your arm. They also pretend to fight with you by pushing you or teasing you. If the man makes you upset, he will comfort you and try to get a hug out of it (again, physical contact). If a man likes you he will always look you in your eyes and find any reason to talk to you even if the subject is silly.

* i think he likes you if he comes up and talks to you even though he doesn't sit with you alsomt evryday. and when your in a group his attention is almost always on you(example: he says hi 2 you first then 2 evryone else or he doesn't even say ot to them! or he realizes that he's been focusing all his attention on you and then quickly says something to someelse to try and cover it up.)

* Another sign is being mean (yep) this could be comments about your height,age,hair etc. example you could be short so he might make mean comments about it. or playful mean like a water fight or something .

* touching; if he touches you he might try and make up some lame excuse to do so . or he might not he might stand extra close to you and lean on you and kind of bump shoulders with you, of course you don't mind lol when its just the 2 of you you can have a good conversation if you just feel relaxed around him its a good sign and finally looking at you then smiling/turning away quick is a good sign.

* Signs that a guy likes you is that yes, they make a lot of eye contact and usually will not turn their head when you look at them to create that crazy feeling smile between you too. I think a guy trys several different ways to say they like you if they don't know which way to apporach you from. My guy friend and I are always at a loss for words, we know each other well and we have been there and done that several years ago. Take it slow don't rush.. these are the best part of falling in love!! "The Signs" But don't go to slow they may run away casue your not bitting back.

* If a guy really loves you he will gaze at you until you look his way, and then he'll either quickly turn away or smile at you(it depends on whether he's shy or not). Also, he'll always be looking for excuses to get closer to you or be where you are. It'll be pretty obvious. Trust me, you'll know if he loves you.

* NOT EVERY GUY IS THE SAME. EVERYONE HAS DIFF WAYS OF SHOWING HIS FEELINGS. one might fetch things for you, carry things for u, sit with you at lunch, laugh at your jokes. My ADVICE: if you are a girl, you KNOW if a guy lieks you or not. DONT MAKE A PRO-CON LIST out of it.

* I know, this is stereotypical, but DONT EVER ASK A GUY OUT!!!... let him know you like him, but DONT ASK HIM OUT. that gives him waaayyy too much of an EGO BOOST. let him know what you feel,a nd let HIM take it from there.. I know this helps.. AND PLS.. don't change for a guy. worst thing you can DO. same with guys: don't change for sm dumb girl.

* When there is a crowd of his friends or people around you he will wait until everyone leaves or he will hesitate to leave until he gets you on your own so he can talk to you. Also eye contact is a big clue. He'll be really nice to you or compliment you.

* I think you know when a guy loves you when he stares at you from across the lunch room and when you look at him he quickly turns his head . Also when your sitting right beside him in homeroom and he purposely moves his arm so it is right up next to yours and dose'nt move it away .you defenetly know when you drop stuff in the hallway and he always picks it up for you .

* You can never know for sure. Take a chance, ask if they do or ask them out, and if they say "No", what's the worst that coudld happen!?!? (thanks to my friend Ker for that one). If your like me, you'll come up with some story about how you'll be living in a shack with thousands of cats by the age of 21. But in reality, everyone has let downs from time to time. Just think, if he says "Yes", aren't the pros that come along with the little word worth the risk?

* I don't really have anything to add that hasn't already been covered..but if a guy is shy, he will try to be near you, but wait for you to say something before he has the courage to talk. He might seem visibly nervous. With some guys, you can tell. With the other less obvious ones, the biggest sign is usually that they'll do something for you even if you're just joking around about it. But hey- that's just from my own experience.

* I think the most abious thing is that he will look at you alot and he'll try to be around you as much as possible. Just give it time love sweet girl!!=).

* when guys are around you and you dont really know they like you,they will ask for hugs or high fives.they will some times make nasty jokes that invole you in it..:o (if you know what i meen)but they are always trying to be funny around you.they always look for you after school or befor of even during.

* Boys are so honest well if ur you but the guy I like is so so so honest.and I really really like him but his way of showing he loves is that if you write a note and ask him do u like you he will write maybe maybe so i ask him again he says yea so i feel cool so really why dont u JUST ASK HIM and he will apreciate ur honesty and if he loves u he loves u but there is a guy just for u!!!

* a guy loves you if he notices alot of things about you like your outfits,hair,jewlrey etc.

* He'll ask for your number.....

* He will stand really close and tall when he is talking to you.......

* If a guy loves you, he will show interests in your interests. He will not compliment you to your face as much as he does to your friends. He will always want you to make the first move - believe you i know this from past experience. I, too would never ask a guy out but i do think that all you lasses have to be abit bold and daring and put yourself out there. Show your true worth...by showing a bit of self confidence ..in turn, he will become confident enough to ask you out.

* The king of all signs is that a guy will worry about you so much when your ill. He will always ask about you and make sure you get well soon.

* I think if you tell a guy you like him and he says he just loves you as a friend then that could mean two things. 1.He could just be shy or surprised and not want to admit it, because he's embarrased or another reason like that. One way to tell is that he stills sometimes hangs around you. He may joke around and say -/+ things about himself. That means he just wants to impress you or get your attention. 2.He could really NOT like you. If you really think this so, you'll most likely know. He won't pay much attention to you. He may say hi a few times, but he may also be friendly but not over friendly.

* All guys are different and you never know what they are thinking. Guys are strange and absurb, but follow your heart and you may find Mr.Right.

* If he loves you, then he gives you special attention, being totally oblivious to everyone else in the room. U feel like the only person in the world that matters. when u talk, he just gazes into ur eyes..takes special interest in you & your little matters, also gives u utmost respect, looks at you after everything he says to see how u react, and when u look at him, he looks away smiling.he'll try to show off his physical strength, by lifting something or someone heavy, and then looks at you to see if he's impressed you. also, he'll try to defend you when someone makes fun of you.

* Listen to ur instinct.. You'll just know if he loves you.

When he doesn't like you

* A guy does NOT like you if he is mean to you. I dont mean like, making jokes about your height or something like that, Im talking MEAN.....he definetly does not like you. Because in my opinion it is rude, disrespectful and definetly immature!!

A Guy's Opinion

ok this coming from a guy, look for these signs. trying to make jokes. protecting you alot. trying to make you happy while your sad. holding on to you not in a sexually way but like raping his arms around you. smiling at you alot. and the last but biggest one is if he really likes you hell give you a lot of respect. but all guys aren't the same keep that in mind.

hello, i don't usually do this(im good at solving my own problems) but i thought i would give it a try..
there is a guy that i like , but i don't show it because i don't want him to know so mostly i act normally...
but i've been noticing something lately and that was that in class(he sits behind me on the left) he was staring at me, for a really long time. at first i wasn't quite sure because i didn't ever catch him doing it directly, so i dropped my pencil and when i picked it up, i turned around slightly. i caught him like 1 time but he somehow or other always manages to look back at his work.(by the way i haven't been doing this very often it was unoticable)
i just sort of ignored it for a while because i have had pretty bad experiences with guys and i don't want to sort of stalk him or be obsessed about him i try to keep it cool,concentrate on something else.
1 day i decided to tell my 2 closest friends and of course at first they didn't believe me, but later they told me that he had been looking at me, in the hall, in the school yard and so on.
i believed them, but there was just 1 thing , i didn't quite believe it myself(not very many guys like me, not because im abnormal well not visually anyway hehe,but because all the guys in my class are so immature and this is year 9 im talking about so 14-15) and he didn't even know me or talk to me(he's new thats why hes kinda shy) anyway it seemed that there wasn't enough proof by far.
then he kept coming closer to me, while waiting for a lesson to start,or just in break, and started strangling,kicking his friends and messing about right beside me, and every now and then he would do something really stupid like stand beside me for no reason at all but not say anything or look at me(he just did this once), or he accidently leant against me,or he kept stretching out his feet and touching my chair and he always stared at me. 1 day would be full of things like that happening, and some days would just be boring and normal.
i never spoke to him , i think maybe i said "hi" just once but what really disappointed me was when he stared at the floor and he muttered "hey" back. ok i heard this was supposed to be a "good" sign, but it didn't have a positive effect on me.
ok this sounds all convincing and stuff but sometimes he pretends he doesn't know me or ignores me or i don't know , i'm a complicated person and sorry if i'm bothering you, but those things made me doubt that he liked me.
and to be honest i want to know the truth the only truth even if it's bad , really really bad or good, either way i want the truth because it's just so much better when i know and i'm not confused...
thanks for reading and if you can't help it's fine
it might seem obvious but i don't know just try what you can
thanks in advance
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i have a friend that is also my neighbor. he's very shy, but very kind. we've been friends for about 4 months.

1 month ago, i decided i liked him, and asked him out casually. we spent 8 hours together! it was perfect, and i had the time of my life! there was no physical intimacy though, just having fun and getting to know each other.

after the date my roommate asked him if we were going to date, and he said, "well, i'm just trying to take things slow." when his roommate asked him if he liked me, he told him he wasn't sure. i know for a fact that he knows that i like him (he told my friend that he knows).

we see each other several times a week but just interact as friends, and he lingers after group activities so that he can talk with me. he actually gave me a hug not after a date, and i've never seen him hug anyone else! he's gradually becoming more comfortable with me, but he still hasn't asked me out.

i'm 23, he's 24, and i'm looking for a spouse. i'm very interested in getting to know him and dating him, but i don't want to spend all this time pining over him and waiting for him to ask me out, to find out several months down the road that he never had the intention of us being anything more than friends.

it's been a month, and i'm just wondering how long i should wait for him to get more serious. i'm okay with him taking things slow, but how slow should i tolerate? what i would really like to know is if he likes me or not. he gives the signs, but other times doesn't (which i think is just because he's shy, or he doesn't know how he feels about me).

i don't want to ask him straight out necessarily, because he might not know how he feels yet, and i don't want to put him on the spot like that.
also, what can i do, if anything, to move this relationship along?

he's new at school and he's like not really shy but he kinda is. how can i tell if he likes me or not even if he talks to me on the bus and we say hi to each other in school... how can i tell?

k here it goes...theres this guy (andrew) thats been my friend since like the beginning of last year (not real close friends though) and recently ive rele started ta like him alot...but it feels like hes playin me...one day he'll be like rele friendly and like want ta talk and hang out wit me and be close to me...one time when we were talkin on msn he was like hey beautiful wahats up and like we should be partners in history fr sumthin just me and u...and then the next day he'll bareley even talk to me at all its rele starting to confuse me and i rele donno if likes me or not?? any suggestions?? and how do i get him ta like me more and want to be wit me all the time??

theres this other guy (curtis) and hes always stariun at me in my art class..and im startin ta get the feeling he likes me..but hes not rele givin me any signs?? and i think hes too shy to talk to me but he talks to almost every one else..hes kinda a quiet one..and i dont think he wants to tell his friends because i liked his friend (alex) last year, but alex didnt like me in "that way" so i think he doesnt want to tell his friends because of that?? help??

also i was wunderin how to get a guy to rele notice u and want to get to know u?? oh ya and how to casually approach a guy in the hall and how to start a conversation and keep it going without feeling awkward

if u can help me thanks!!!! xoxoz

okay, so there's this guy in my english class. i have this feeling that he likes me. i don't know why, but it's just my gut feeling. every class i have with him, he always seems to be teasing me sometimes or making fun of me, but then later he smiles and says sorry. also, whenever i'm doing work in class, he'll turn his head towards me and stare at me, but when i look up at him and catch him staring at me, he turns away pretty fast. i dont know if its for sure or not, i'd have to ask him personally, but i dont know. i mean, we are good friends..and i feel like i can tell him everything.

if you can help me out, i'd be very greatful!
thank you!

okayy theres this kid im in love with. i sometimes get a feeling he likes but sometimes i think that he doesnt like me. he's in one of my classes and everytime im with my friends ill catch him looking at me and sometimes he'll turn really fast. i dont really know if he thinks im ugly or something. he says hi to me sometimes..not everyday though. usually when i talk to him he looks in my eyes and looks at my lips. and sometimes when i try to be funny he'll make this laugh. hes really shy around me. i think he doesnt talk to me because he doesnt wanna say the wrong things to make himself look stupid..can someone pleasee help me..im really confused on if he likes me or not. sometimes i think he says things outloud so i can hear him say it and make me laugh.

okay, heres the thing.
i am in the age of dating and stuff. there is this new guy in my school. just like me. he knows me well and sits right behind me in class. i am totally into him and want to know if he likes me back.
his description: he is taller than me, slightly dark, has a deep voice and is quite cute. his hair is spiky and he is as thin as me.
things other people have to say: well, many people tease us as in "item" if you know what i mean. i dunno if its because they think i have a crush on him (please, please no) or that he has a crush on me (i wish!!!). but when they do tease us, i really like it but still pretend to, you know, get annoyed.
what i notice about him: he is the annoying kind. in a day, he will say hi to me just to annoy me (or maybe not) about fifty times. during yoga class or in a class where we have to form lines, he ends up beside me. during class, whenever we get teased, he never says anything. well, sometimes he does but very rarely. he just usually ignores that person (does this mean anything?). he kinda stares into my eyes when i am talking to him too.
does he like me, or doesn't he?
please help.
thanks.

i have a huge crush on this guy. hes kinda shy, he is friends with alot of girls but he has never had a gf or kissed a girl. he doesnt really talk about relationships around me and he doesnt show emotions that well. i became friends with him last year and he was always so nice to me, but i didnt want to read into things bc hes generally a nice person. his bff told me last year when he likes someone he mulls over it and doesnt say anything for awhile. (they say its a girl quality so they make fun of him and call him a "woman")
so anyway, this year our social circles have diverged a bit so i dont see him very much. then my friend casually mentioned it to him one day in convo that i like him (i was kinda mad but im over it now) he didnt really have a reaction. i took that as a bad sign so i kinda gave up. he still continued to say hi everytime he saw me however. about a week later, i randomly eat with him one day. he was acting weird, like awkward, he wasnt looking at me when i talked to him when before he would hold my gaze. sometimes he would randomly say things and look at me for a second. then his bff showed me on his phone a drunken text where the guy was like "get a date" and he peered at me then. i wasnt sure what that meant or if he just wanted to see my reaction for a hint that i like him. later on when he sat across from me he stared off into space like the entire time but one time i glanced over and he was looking at me for like longer than 3 seconds. he doesnt generally stare at people he isnt close with but i dunno it could mean nothing.
a couple days later, he was helping me at practice since hes an instructor, showing me where to go and he kind of brushed my shoulders even though i already went where he told me to go. he like scared me, because hes not touchy feely at all and i watched and he never does that to other girls. but then he ignores me. like he came up to me and my bff after practice that day and was talking and wasnt looking in my direction.
i hung out with him with a group of people about 2 weeks ago and he sat next to me and said hey i never see you and offered me food and such. when i got up to leave he asked me "hey you leaving?" and then said "i cant wait til house starts" (the tv show we watched together the previous year) and i knew he wouldnt be able to watch it, my bff is in the same class w him that goes on during the show so i was like "silly boy, you have class" and he said "oh well when i get the season we will watch it on dvd's" i invited him to something after that but he was busy and its hard since our social circles dont match. it doesnt help either that we're both very busy with school and such.
one day when i was talking to him he said "i heard about this...hope that is better" i knew he must have heard it from someone else because i never told him that. when i started talking to his bff, he interrupted us and asked me "hey are you doing band next year?" (we're both in it)
but other than these things, he generally ignores me. walking to class and such he always says hi, but when im near him, most of the time he wont look at me or acknowledge my presence. and then when i finally give up, he does something random, like one time i ate with him again after not talking to him for a week and i started talking and he just patted me on the shoulders while not looking at me. he never ever touched me while we were friends but i dont want to jump to conclusions.
the next day, during a band trip, he got on the bus and saw me sitting by myself and then my bff sitting behind me by himself. he sat with my bff, even tho i generally think he doesnt like him (in fact, he was in a bad mood during the trip bc my bff does nothing but make fun of him) and he talked to me and such and actually looked me in the eye! later on, when i was standing in line and he was behind me a bit, when i moved to a diff part of the line i saw him looking at me. he could have been looking at someone else, but it was weird.
i dont know if hes just really shy (and it doesnt help that im shy and i dont throw myself on him to confirm my friends statement) or if he just isnt interested. i like to think if he wasnt at all interested, he wouldnt touch or even talk to me at all but whatever.

well um here i go
ok well this might be confusing.well i like this boy obviously since 4th grade but well we like hated each other then! he'd always tease me and i'd do the same but i couldn't help but notice he'd be nice soemtimes....and he's sooooo funny!! he'll crack anyone up! and he's nice too and soooo cute! we haven't been in each other's classes till then and well i kinda liked him but i started liking him a little more through the years........last year in 7th grade well i really started noticing some signs from him........
one sign is well we'd always sometimes pass in the hallways me w/ my friends and him with his and whenevr i see him i look away and he'll look at me too and look away too.well once i was walking up the hallway and at the end he was turning a corner and he liked tried to keep looking at me and then went down the hallway. i couldn't help but smile at that. where all the 8th graders stand to be dismissed i kind of catch him looking at me sometimes.once i was in the library alone for the book fair and his class came in and i saw him and he looked sooo cute!!! he's on the basketball team and they were supposed to wear a white shirt w/ a tie and i almost fainted looking at him. but i kinda panicked too cause i didn't want to be that near him i get nervous. well luckily i saw my friend kevin and we started talking........then i heard a voice say " hey kevin is that your sister?" i turned around ready to say " no i'm not!" when i noticed this guy i've never seen w/ my crush! and he's just looking at me so me and kevin are like " no way!" and i'm like "plus kevin you'd be lucky to have me as your sister you know!" and we start laughing and i smile around and see my crush and he's just looking back and forth from me to kevin. he's not a shy guy but he like didn't say anything! i'd thought he might say something mean since we were never this close before.i always wondered why they both came but he never said soemthing.
then i was coming from gym and he sees me and well like wraps his arm around his girlfriend and keeps looking at me. i roll my eyes and smirk but i keep walking.
then i was walking past his math class ( he was standing by the door ) he notices i walk by and opens the door making a sound which i can't remember and i just roll my eyes.
i don't know why but i've never smiled at him no matter how much i like him
i want to but i never got the courage
sometimes i usually see him looking at me
this is just sooo weird 4 me
i just have a feeling he does
i'd write more but g2g

i met this guy hes really smart and funny but i dont know if he likes me my friend who is also friends with him says hes shy to show his feelings but he asked me the other day to chill just the two of us and pick my friend up later insted of waiting to pick her up at the same time of me getting there do you think he likes me???

ok...the other nite i was txting my crush and he sum how found out that i like him...then he told me that he was still my friend and that he didnt like me like that...then he told me the name of the person he did like...even tho he told me this i still wonder if he likes me.he flirts all the time with me... he duz nasty jokes,he stares at me and straght into my eyes untill i look away...he teases me,talks to me all the time and all that other stuf... hes not shy but he flirts all the time with me...does he like me or not?

theres a guy i like, we were great friends once and he's always stared at me. but a couple months ago his friend told him i liked him and ever since hes been ignoring me, he totally overreacted but now he keeps staring at me, all his friends say hes shy but i dont know! what dya think?

there is this guy that i really like in band.i know that he looks at me and sometimes when i glance over at him we either make brief eye contact or he quickly looks away. after i knew who he was we started talking all the time on the internet and he gives me advice and asks me how was you day? and stuff like that but he never talks to me in person. a few days ago on the internet i asked him to please say happy birthday to me and when he did in person it took him a minute and he seemed really nervous and this one time he sat at my lunch table he sat like 1 ft. away from his tray and he kept picking at his food and bobbing his leg up and down..if you need more info leave a comment but i really want to know if he likes me. thanks

i realy like this guy and i dont now if he likes me cause im not the skinest person in the class how do i now if he likes me plzz what do i do

well there's this guy that i like,i am 16 and he is 16 and hasnt had a girlfriend yet but i had a boyfriend before, he seems shy with me and i nearly always have to be the one talking to him, he sometimes ignores me when i say hi and pretends he doesnt see me..and when i walk home from skool he wallks my way, we walk together but i always have to thin of stuuff to ask him because he hardly does and another thing is he always walks faster than me, does he like me? how do i know?

so there's this guy i like in school..the reason i started liking him was because he acted like he did but i never gave him a hint that i liked him back and he is pretty shy and now he doesnt act like it i mean and i get really depressed and down because i want to go out w/ him so bad he always looks at me and when i look at him he looks away we never talk and now i try to let him know i like him but he's like trying to move on so i cant tell if he notices or now!so how do i know if i like him cuz im tired of getting depressed and feeling rejected and heartbroken and like wanting to give up without even trying ...

almost evry day after school boy name jason he looks at me andhe smiles then says "hi anya" and he gos to home

ok here i go. i know this guy and his name is jacob well he is like really shy and we have been friends for over a year well in the summer time i asked him out yeah i know crazy well anyways he always has a smile and his whole family has told me taht he likes me and all but thats his family. but i dont know if he really likes me or what. but i would really like to know what u all think cause i sure in the heck dont. i mean at times i feel that he really likes me and all but at other times i dont i need helo with this answer as soon as possible
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there is a guy in my class that i really like and i think that he likes me. i recently talked to him about a recent tragedy in his life and he gave me a hug. i felt real comfortable and safe with him. i also felt a connection with him. i think he likes me but he has not said it but he usually stares at me in class or he would touch me on my arm sometimes when he sees me in the hall. i am scared to tell him how i feel but how can i know for sure that he likes me. his friend is always trying to be nice to me so i think that he may have said something to him. help

there is this guy that i've known for years now, and well we used to speak to each other in some occasions, but now for some so called reason we both stopped talking to each other. all he ever does is either look at my direction for a long 10 min or he smiles at me when i smile but sometimes looks away. last time he was with some friends and him and his friends where all looking at my direction and hanging where i usually hang out. he usually does dance moves and stuff when i look at him and smiles. i seriously am confused and i need good advice from someone. i would love to recieve replys. thankyou!

ok sooo theres this guy and i took him to the sadies hawkins dance and hes really shy and at first he like avoided me and stuff and then all these rumors glt made up by his friend that liked me..they were really rude so i talked to my date and he explained that it wasnt true and the friend wasnt too fond of him so it made sense. after the dance my dates best friend told my friend taht he liked me and we had a "thing" and before he wouldnt really talk to me but he texted me first and thats a big deal bc he doesnt really talk to girls much. and then we were all hanging out and one of his guy friends, (they arent taht great of friends, they dont really hang out much) called him to come to the park with us and he was going to run all the way from his house to the park to hang out with me his guy friend and the guy friends girlfreidn. but a couple days later, the guy that started the rumors wanted to ask me to homecoming and i told his best friend taht i would say yes but i didnt think it was such a great idea. the guy that i liked was going to ask me, until the guy that started the rumors started more tellling everyone i was really rude adn totally rejected him to homecoming. so they guy i liked thought i was really rude about it (even though it wasnt true) and decided on asking a girl from another school who he told his freainds he really didnt want to ask. he didnt up asking her though. but hten another one of his guy friends told him taht i siaid all this crap about him and was really mean behind his back. when i tried to explain he told me that he didnt like me and when i see him at school he glares at me and ignores me. but at stuff outside of school if hes there, i catch him staring at me and then if we make eye contact he looks away................do i still ahve any chance with him?

okay so there is boy named nick and i like him and he liked me back and his friends asked me out for him but mean while they where laughing so i thought it was a joke and i said no but then i realized he really did like me but he is really shy so when i asked him to tell me the truth he blushed with a smile on his face and said "i don't know" and then i told him i didn't like him because i was to nerves and his smile went away and said he didn't like me neither after a day or so i sent him a note saying i really did like him and he didn't answer to it so i just let go but he still looks at me (aka stares) and then i look up and he looks down and then a few days ago nick was talking to his friend patrick and i was near them and then his friend called me by a nickname that my friends call me (but i don't like it) and then he said to nick "i told you so" so i predicted that they were talking about me so then i was like in a very playful "don't call me that ha ha" and then i said "do you have a middle name?" to his friend patrick and he said "yeah but i am not going to tell you" and i was to nick which had the biggest smile ever (me too by the way) "do you have a middle name?" and i waited and he only stared at me with a smile and his patrick was looking at him like oh no say something come on but with a smile on finally nick answer and he told me " i am only going to tell you that it starts with a d" and his friend made a joke and i laughed along with them and then left.

i told my friend and she was like "yeah he does like you, you should make a move" but i don't know what to say...does he like me or not? ..what should i do?? please help me i need advice! :/

hey there are this 2guys(one in front of me in class and the other on the back)and i think they like me cause the one in the front is always like asking me personal things and now almost knows me well and2 times he asked me if i wanted to hug him.also he treats me differently he's nice and all but i dont like like him....the one in the back is like totally oopposite cause he always teases me and then says i started it(im in 6th grade) he acts really immature and tries to make yokes(not at all funny) and hes a weirdo and geek ........what should i do?? im 5hours a day and 5days a week with themmm.....they are kreepy help

ok all my friends say this kid really likes me but i didnt think so he one of the shy ones and we only really talk in the halls and when i dont even know it he comes out of no were and just starts talking to me and i saw him once pass me in the hallway and then i guess he turned around to meet me at my locker. so i dont know if he like me but if a guy opens a door for you like all the time is that a sgin to!!!

hi my name is diandra and i am shy just like the boy i like in my school his name is danny and he's shy to yo but he glared at me today when i hugged prcisilla and he stares at me a lot one time he hugged me in a random time and i don't know why. maybe his friend nick osorio told him to since i denyined the kiss i was suppose to give to him. i can't do that the farthest i can go to is a hug and leaning on. i love danny's hugs though it was fun giving them gum but i kind of over did it. i am a cool friend though and love soccer getting to know that last year still practicing though. i am a real tennis player and love to compete and be cute in what i do and how i speak.

looks like things are going good for you...seems like you both know what you want, but your just playing games with each other, you dont seem as guillable as you write yourself to be...sounds a little modest if you ask me lol, but be cute, guys are a trip when it comes to that!

this is really cool advice to the public keep it up

there's this guy i like,and he keeps calling me names like, nasty feet, and neckbreaker. he compliments me and stares at me a lot. plus, his friends keep telling me he likes me.

ok, so i like this guy whos pretty outgoing it seems...ive had a few classes with him and i noticed him like from first day and im sorta shy so i usually dont say anything so its been over a semester and i havent talk to him ever, but i've noticed that he notices me more often and he stares at me and even holds my gaze when i look at him for a while before one of us look away, but im not sure if the staring is because he likes me, or because he saw me looking at him and he just wants to know if i like him.

there's this guy, he really intrigues me because he doesn't hang around with friends. i only got to know him this semester because we are classmates in both our major subjects in college. before, he used to be so prim and proper and kinda weird because he was soooo silent. then recently, he's not anymore shy around me. i always caught him taking frequent glances at me. is he just amuse by me? or does he like me?

hey, there's a guy in my school... when i like bump into him he will like look at me always n when i look back he smiles... my friend also said the way e looks at me it looks like he likes me... 1 time he ask to take a pic with his hp with me i was shocked. i don like taking photos but he like if u don i will blah blah... so i did it after few months he like when i walk here he will walk another way... he like keep don wan to see me... i hav no idea wether he likes me or not!! please tell me the answer.

this guy always tease me. but i hav a weird feeling tat he likes me but he doesn't . when i like bump into him he will like look at me always n when i look back n say like 'hi' or bad things he smiles... my friend also said the way e looks at me it looks like he likes me... 1 time he ask to take a pic with his hp with me i was shocked. i don like taking photos but he like if u don i will blah blah... so i did it after few months he like when i am here he like wan to go away... sad t.t i dunno wat to do now or wether he likes me.... giv me some help pls~

ok theres this guy and he told me he likes me and wants to go out with me but i only think it's cause i'm hott and everyone was telling him to go out with me and i mean like everyone so i'm really confused and i really really like him it's just that i don't think he really likes me idk what to do...

okay, so there is this guy that i really like and i have liked him since the first day of school in 9th grade, and we always make eye contact in the hallway, then he looks away, and i asked him out last year, but he said that he was busy, and i really want to know if he likes me or not, but i can't tell if he does or not.

theres this damn hot boy i like. at first i never noticed him, until i would turn around to talk to me friend and i saw him look at me. then he would look away. this would happen frequently all the time. once i saw him more i developed a huge crush on him. we have so much in common and i ve already told my friend to tell him that i liked him. hes one of those physcho ppl when u talk to him but when hes alone hes seriously quiet. but he talks alot. now we feel awkward around eachother. but our friends teased us one day and he said he was interested in another girl. where in fact he told my friend he wanted to meet me, but im not sure if he knew who i was yet. curious? could he be just a little infatuated with me? :) hes so hot.....

so heres my story.
there are these two friends, both skater or w/e, and basically, they know that i exist. like i have one class with one of them, and the other i always see in the hall. we will call them mike and curtis. mike is in my class, and curtis is the one i see everyday.
so curtis has a girlfriend, but before he got a gf he would always look at me and he thought i was hot i guess. and one day he just stood next to me in the hall not talking-but i wasnt talking at all either. he still looks back at me every now and then, and i realized that the first time i made eye contact with him and acknowledged to him that i knew he existed was during lunch one day. and he freaked and smiled and looked back and got all jumpy.
now mike is the one i really like. but he is shy. i think he liked me for awhile, but has moved on because i guess im sending him signs like i dont like him or something, or even that i hate him :( this isnt true though. yeah he definitely does not like me anymore.
but these are the only two boys who i have had my eye on. and i just dont know what to do. i guess i have to get over it and hope that curtis breaks up with his gf soon and asks me out.
please help if you can, or ask me any questions you need to!

hi there! i am in the uni. it was our first week and we were just getting to know our lecturers. on the third day we were supposed to have this course with a new lecturer. omg! when i walked into the classroom there was this handsome young guy who was supposed to be our lecturer! he was everything i ever wanted in a guy. i really fell for him . i could tell he liked me too because he would do his job alright but get nervous around me sometimes, smile, eye contact etc. other girls think he's nice as well. i know if a guy likes you he will make a move, but the problem is he is my lecturer and we are in an institution and he has friends who are teachers too. i am his student what will people think if he decides to ask me out? but i am also curious to know why he hasn't let me know his feelings after a whole semester? i don't know anything about his personal life. what should i do?

hi, im a lating guy, and my passion is women, so my advise is this

when you stare people in the eyes and say something, you can feel the power of the words that come from your heart

im a getto,straight,extra terestrial,pyshopath who belongs in rehap. how do i stop being a ghetto,straight,extra terestrial,pyshopath who belongs in rehap.

i also drink crack! should i stop

well i like this boy and he really cutte .i once cought him stareing at me and it was intering for me. i started talking to him ,because he so shy and everytime i talk to him he looks in to my eyes and i blush . im not sure if he likes me though i see him everywhere i go . i really like him but i dont know what to do

well theres this guy i think he likes me but hes not a "loner" he is actually really popular but not around me he is so hard to talk to cause im so very out going but yet he is so cute & evry one says we make a cute cuple & he thinks that to but its been months & he still says he dosent like me but he tells his best friend that how pretty i am so i dont get it do i move on or wait for him

okay here it goes me and my guy friend have known each other for 3 years. we didn't get really close to each other until last year since we had so many classes together. at first it felt like a regular friendship there were no extra long glances or compliments but as the year progressed he started to become aware of the guys i would check out and insult them at first i thought he was just joking but he began to sound jealous. then things became even more different when he would bring up conversations that i didn't remember and he would continously tell me that he has bad memeory that really made wonder but i brushed it aside. also he would try to invite me to places but i had to decline due to a lack of money to pay for everything i thought at the time that if he liked me he would have payed for it. i began to think may be i was just reading him incorrectly and that he didn't like me but he began to walk closer to me in the hallways and moved his seat next to me in physics class and began to sit close to me there and wouldn't like it when another classmate (who was a guy) would sit next to me. after that i started to believe that he liked me again but he could never directly tell me or officialy ask me out on a date. then summer came we didn't have each other's number so we couldn't talk to each other not until i got a myspace did we communicate again we would stay up and talk. that's when he asked me to hang out with him at lunch just the two us this year like the year before but this time he would be driving us around. up to this point many people told me how much we looked like a couple they would tell me that we would be gazing at each other and would be leaning in to each other more than normal friends would. anyway back to this year sometimes being in the car with him is akward since he is always quiet and moving around nervously and he stares a lot and tries to make it look like he looking at something else. he compliments me but in ways that i don't get immediately example he likes cars and compared me to a toyota supra which he likes a lot well one time when we were driving he calls out "hey that's the car i compared you to its so sexy" at first i thought he was talking about the car but then i realized that he was calling me sexy i think i'm not sure.anyway back to this year right now though whenever we see each other we in the hallways we don't say hi just keep walking but meet up for lunch everyday i think may be he's bored and doesn't know how to tell me because he his unable to talk to me like he talks to other girls with them he is less nervous and quiet and is able to joke around without feeling cautious i think that if a guy liked you shouldn't he feel comfortable around you.
anyway again he asked me to go to a concert but again i have no money i want him to take me but i don't know if he likes me that much to pay for me also i want him to be my valentine but i don't think he will ask.
can someone please give me advice and help clear my confusion on if he likes me as more than just a friend and help me get this shy guy to ask me out and in case you haven't noticed i am a very shy girl.