yes please i've been thru the same can you tell me ur experience

how can you tell if someone is a virgin?

how can you tell if someone is a virgin? i would love to know that. my fiance is telling me that she is but i am not sure.

how can you tell if someone is a virgin? i would love to know that. my fiance is telling me that she is but i am not sure.

can u email me and tell me how u know if a girl is a virgin or nott to help out my friend

i think i am a virgin cuz i still havent had sex with any guy...but yes i have played and messed around a lot...i just wanna noe how i can noe if i am a virgin or not. i stuck my finger in and it goes all the way in....does that mean m not a virgin?

she says she is virgin but i am not shure,
pls let me know how to be shure if she is virgin

yes please i've been thru the same can you tell me ur experience

please i have got the same issue

pls email me asap

ok here is the answer to your questions

The hymen (name for the Greek God of marriage and weddings, Hymenaeus, later also the Greek word for membrane; also called maidenhead) is a fold of mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia. There is no such thing as "congenital absence of the hymen", ie it is a myth that girls are born without a hymen. The most common formation of the hymen is crescentic or crescent-shaped, although several other formations are possible. After a woman gives birth she may be left with remnants of the hymen called carunculae myrtiformes or the hymen may be completely absent.

The hymen has no known anatomical function. In societies which value chastity, the greatest significance of the hymen is a traditional belief that an intact hymen indicates a state of intact virginity. However, it is not possible to confirm that a woman or post-pubescent girl is a virgin by examining the hymen. A physician routinely checks the appearance of the hymen of baby girls at birth[citation needed], and again during all future pelvic examinations. In cases of suspected rape or sexual abuse a detailed examination of the hymen may be carried out, however the condition of the hymen alone is often inconclusive or open to misinterpretation, especially if the patient has reached puberty.

PLEASE TELL ME IF THIS HELPS

this is not too helpful because some girl might rip their hymen because of sports. so is there any other ways to know is a girl is a virgin?

yes pls i am curious

i heard that on the first sexual intercourse a woman has she may bleed a little that means she was a virgin. but im not sure

ive already experienced sex w/ my girlfriend but i havent noticed if her hymen is still intact when we had it the first tym,her vigina didnt bleed at all, is it a sign that she is not a virgin when we had sex that tim

i can't understand. boys, i am a girl, i have never had sex before but when i tried to put my finger in my vagina it entered very easily. i didn't feel pain at all. there was no obstacle to do that and no blood come out. i don't no way and i feel very strange.

for that reason, the first time i am going to have sex with my boy i am very afraid that she will think that i am not a virgin and he may blame me for being unfaithful. i have tried to detect in frond of the mirror my virgin hymene but i did not see anything. this made me thing that the hymene and blood flow if having sex for the first time is not the absolut way to indentifine a virgin. i am an absolut virgin and i know that although i seem not to have a virgin hymene. if i discover anything else about that i will let you know.

i am still a virgin. i never had sex, but i do play with myself, i never stuck my finger but rubbed. so i'm asking why my vagina looks like im not a virgin... i see a whole that expands ..does that mean i lost my virginity... i really need help,because im geting married and me and my fiance are both virgins...

i'm thinking about having sex mith my bf bu i don't know if i'm a virgin!i have stuck my finger in and fondled myself and it doeesn't hurt, so am i still a virgin?? i havn't bled either

please email me asap i need to know!!

a virgin is somebody who has never had any sexual act. meaning any type, whether it be masturbation, oral or penetration. once you start playing with your d*ck or your p*ssy that's it, you loose your virginity, meaning your innocence. a virgin is someone who has never had any sexual interaction therefore she or she is innocent. so if you have manusbated you're not a virgin anymore because you've already expirience a sexual feeling.

i need a more presise way of knowing

how should i confirm that a women had no sex with any one before

i'm appalled and offended for the woman that you asked to see her privates. i would have told you not no but h*** no! lol! and the fact that she said yes blows my mind! my mother would have slapped me to the future and back for agreeing to something like that, and i'm grown! in response to another comment: a virgin is someone that hasn't had sex period ( no vaginal penetration by a males member). self pleasure is excluded, if you're not making the beast with two backs you are still a virgin! please do not tell young people that they are not virgins because they have engaged in foreplay or self-play. not only does that make women and men ashamed of their bodies, but i feel it advocates for them to just go out and have premarital! secondly, each woman is made differently. point blank! i'm still a virgin, and because of this hymen bull crap i worried myself almost to death before and after my first pelvic exam. one of my friends ( that's not a virgin )had the balls to tell me that i wasn't a virgin after i had the procedure done. i later told her until mr. right jumps in my face, gives me that big a** rock, and makes love to me on my wedding bed b**** don't try it. i'm still the big-v h* bag! and then another friend told me that the exam broke my hymen. i was like whatever no it didn't! the fact was that all the non-virgins were trying to bring me down! boy evil works in mysterious ways. truth be told i'm a competitive swimmer and i wear tampons religiously so it's probably been gone since the 9th grade. and if a man can't tell by my word, my hesitance to kiss him or touch him that i'm a virgin, screw him. frankly this trying to figure out if a girl is a virgin mess is old. i think that it is annoying that men walk around trying to evaluate if we are still virgins, when half the male population goes around planting their seed in anything that walks. aren't women worthy enough to have men that are virgins too!? to be honest i'm more worried about stds than whether some guy is a virgin, hence my hesitation to dating. anyway, how would you guys feel if some chic was trying to look at your stuff trying to evaluate if you were still virgin. and calling you a liar because a piece of skin that can be damaged from lord knows what wasn't there. maybe if people weren't having sex before marriage period no one would have to walk around checking people for their hymen, looking for std, or whatever. and maybe no would know about the specifics of a first sexual experience if people had a don't ask don't tell policy! ....beside many women can't tell whether they have a hymen or not. we are often made ashamed to explore our bodies and couldn't point it out even if we tried. each hymen looks different anyway, soooo.... men just be lucky that you don't have to search all around to find out what's what inside you. just know that physical activity can break a hymen, wearing tampons can stretch/break a hymen, engaging in self-discovery can stretch/break a hymen, bleeding or not at all can happen a girls first time, feeling pain or none at all can happen a girls first time, and it is almost next to impossible to determine if someone is a virgin by getting a peek. this entire thing right here is the reason i'm seriously considering being a consecrated virgin, god will accept me hymen or no hymen! peace! folks abstain... what for that ringgggg!

the guy who mentioned that masturbation results in losing your virginity is an idiot.

what i can tell you is that yesterday i went out with this girl, she tells me she is a virgin. we've known each other for six months now. she is 23 years old. i had my doubts that she was a virgin. but you can tell when someone has had any sexual expirience. well in her case i was able to tell she had never had a boyfriend. she had no idea how to kis. everytime i would kiss her in the mouth, she would start laughing, and then once i finished kissing her, she would wipe her mouth. hehehehe

anyways, she tells me she is a virgin so i believe her because she is so innocent when it comes to intimacy.

i think there are two way of being a virgin.

1. one is the physical part, if you break your hymen, then you are not a virgin

2. two, mentally if you've never had sex with anyone you can't expirience love and sex so you're still innocent. i think innocent is a good word for a virgin.

and in my opinion, if you put your finger or someone has oral sex with you, you've lost your innocence. so you're not a virgin.

pls man i want to know what u know about how to know if my gf is still a virgin inspite of how she talk and act..i want biological means or explainations..im really sick about this thing..pls give me an accurate explanations,answers and so on..

why do people care so much about this? if you love somebody it shouldn't matter. if you want to know whether or not the person you love has ever had sex before, ask them, if you can't trust their answer then something is wrong. people define virginity very differently, as you can see by reading people's comments here. biologically you cannot prove a woman's virginity just like you cannot prove a man's, so i suggest talking and placing trust in your loved one...otherwise what good is your relationship?

you can break your hymen without having vaginal intercourse. many women masturbate or self-pleasure with vibrators or dildos. you can break your hymen using tampons, horseback riding, doing gymnastics, riding a bike, etc. some women are born without a hymen or a very thin one. the old belief that if there is no blood she's not a virgin is very outdated and medically inaccurate.

if she doesn't have a hymen, she very well could be a virgin. when i was seven i fell off my bike and this tore my hymen. i am a virgin, unless you think i lost it to my bike seat.

please answer me am trying to find a picture for a lady who is still virgina from bottom part. i want it plz

sometimes the trust thing doesn't work. in the end it is down to gut instinct. when i first had sex with my ex and i was a virgin, she swore to me that she was a virgin yet my gut instinct told me she wasn't. five days and lots of sex later, she told me that before she met me she wasn't a virgin. she had had sex with two guys before me. trust comes into it but honestly, you need to trust your gut instinct. sometimes that tells you more than trust or a piece of skin that may or may not be there.

unfortunately there is no definate way to tell if someone is a virgin. girl or guy.

whats the big deal with virginity, if you are seeing someone you should like them because of who they are, it shouldn't matter if they are a virgin or not. and whats with all this crap about lets abstain from sex until we get married, there's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage and you shouldn't try to force all the religious abstinance crap onto other people. furthermore you don't actually lose your virginity until the penis enters the vagina so fingers, tongues and toys do not count.

i don't see what the big deal with it is either. however it means something to someone so i simply tried to answer their question. to be honest i didn't care that my ex wasn't a virgin. what hurt was the fact that she lied about it.

hey guys it doesn't matter, if your girl is virgin or not. what is important is whether her character is in place or not, otherwise you will have a tormenting life ahead. i am a guy who was plagued by this same question long ago, which i finally cleaned out of my system, the way to do it was to tell myself this - "would i have not f*cked given the opportunity that she got, and would she have f*cked with someone else if i had been there instead of him" - in a way blaming myself for being the reason why she is not a virgin. its simple, some girls are b*tches and those are who we are all afraid of associating with and the best way to test it is not by checking her hymen but her characteristics which are more important for us while she is with us.

i had a sex 30 times 1 year before can u please tell me my boyfriend will either come to know about my virginity or not

if i dont have sex for a year or two will the next guy i date know i am not a vergin

i think no sex with a year will make your vagina tight & fresh again(unless you're having hardcore sex). so the answer i guess is your boyfriend or the next guy will think that you're still a virgin..but i think its how you gonna play your game..act like you are hard to get & being innocent will make some guys confused. someone did it to me and it sucks! i get confused its over 5 yrs now and im still thinking about it..it remains a mystery to me.

i think this whole think is stupid.the real way to find out if someone is a virgin is by looking into their eyes.

but then again what is up with all these people and they obsessions with being virgin who cares.love. trust and loyalty are the only things that count.

yea its pretty hard to tell...ima virgin and most ppl dont believe me just because im 18, attractive and have had the same bf for over a yr.

i heared when you make sex in the first time is very painful.it´s true?

when i checked mine, i don't see the hymen... for information, i never had sex before...

you f**knuts. what're you all like 14 or something?? the hymen can be broken just by playing sports, or falling and hitting your groin on something. so that is not a way to tell whether a woman is a virgin or not, some have them, some don't.

secondly, that whole "tight" or "loose" thing? its a load of sh*t. unless you practice shoving flashlights up your vagina, and never had an orgasm or peed in your entire life (meaning no muscle movement ever) you would be loose.

lastly, if i had been the female that had my privacy completely destroyed and put up on youtube to see if i was a virgin or not...i would track you down and rip your f*cking nuts off.

most of you a$$holes need some real education.

and yes when talking about the female organ, i refer to it as "you" as in its yours, cause you're all a bunch of f*cking c*nts anyway

i am still a virgin. i never had sex, but i do play with myself, i never stuck my finger but rubbed. so i'm asking why my vagina looks like im not a virgin... i see a whole that expands ..does that mean i lost my virginity... i really need help

virginity, as far as i know is physical. a girl who has put finger, penis, etc breaking hymen is not a vigin. suppose if hymen is broken and virginal entrance is open, then they have lost their virginity. some girls have hymen gone in sports etc, they are also no longer a virgin. but normally, hymen is never gone without any reason.

see we all are humans and we have sexual desires and we do mistaces no buddy is perfect ,and some time finding our miss right or mr right we do some mistakes.
girls never trust a guy before marriage incase of sex..
and guys if you are not going to marry a girl plz plz plz dont destroy her life and dont play with her emotions.
most of the gals are innocent but most of the boys are not .
please try to understand and stop playing with people life .
please please please .
guys just look in the girls eys how much she loves you and care for u .
gals ,, judje him how he behave to people like in reastaurants (waiters) is he mean to poor people . judge a guy 60% with his behaviour to other people.
so if want to do sex with some one just tell them dont be shy that would be better than telling him or her lie :( never break some one heart you will find some one else but the one will never forget «you..
regards
with love
sean

hi all,

it's interesting that men need physical evidence to know if a woman is a virgin or not.

if you love someone, that means you trust them completely, if she says she is a virgin.. well i suggest either you believe her or leave her or get some help.

this is ancient stuff anyway, but i only hope that if a guy is looking for a virgin woman then he better be a virgin himself as well.

what i am basically saying is that there is no real way to know if a woman is a virgin or not, you will only know after you have sex with her for the first time.. and that will only happen if you love her enough to pay attention to her while you are making love, you will see it in her eyes, and she will see it in yours... it's true that the truth always comes out sooner or later so if you are not a virgin she will find out and vice versa.
i'd be more worried about sexually transmitted diseases.

i just know from experience because when i had sex for the first time with my husband i did not bleed and it was not too painful. the next few times did hurt and kept hurting and i did bleed a little, but by that time i had obviously already lost my virginity- so it can be misleading at times.
some of my friends did bleed on their first time, while others didn't and never did, for some women sex was comfortable from the beginning, for women that play rough sport or wear tampons and masturbate the hymen can stretch out slowly without the need for sex, so when sex is done for the first time it's not painful, and no bleeding occurs.- but this does not mean they are not a virgin!

i hope this is clear. i honestly cannot stress enough that you should really trust the person you are with, if you can't or don't then i suspect there must be something wrong in your psyche. - low self esteem perhaps? but it is really disrespectful and degrading to ask a women to show you her vagina just so you can feel better about yourself. if this had to happen then to how many men would we have to show ourselves to in order to have sex? it seems ridiculous doesn't it.

so i think a little respect and trust needs to be exercised from the majority of you men out there!

if you are not convinced then i will give you an example about men, they use to think that you could tell if men were virgins or not because they would ejaculate too fast or without much arousal, also clumsyness.
so that would mean that for all those naturally clumsy men that happen to ejaculate too soon, they would all be labelled virgins? and to the ones that are pretty good at what they do are considered nonvirgins? stupid isn't it, i hope all this got u thinking!

since puberty my mum and sister encouraged me to get a mirror and check myself to be familiar with my own body parts. i can tell you straight away that i never saw a hymen, that doesn't mean i dont have one though, it's just not outstretched as much over the opening of my vagina as it is in other women... so it wouldn't really be nice if a guy that has trust issues tells me im not a virgin just coz he can't see my hymen, thats ridiculous really!! every woman is different, just coz one woman has an obvious hymen it doesn't mean all are the same. and im still a virgin!

plz give me detail information about how to do sex with wife if she hesitate to do sex. how to improve her sex give me details info with pictures thnaks

if i put my thing into the hole girl and break the hymen and vagina .
virgin's girl mustbe bleeding from the hymen and vagina ?
if hymen and vagina bleeding mean that girl is virgin ?

how i know girls are vargin and show me a all vargin girls vagina in deep.

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well, life is about decision. we all have to make decisions. that's what makes us adults. all decisions have rewards and consequences.. whenever you make a decision, you are taking a risk for either result