how to get over a girl you love

what are you doing right now.. this very momment..

on my computer listening to music.. why?

if you need to get over a woman, you need to stop listening to music. thats the worst thing you can do.

listen to me.. if you stop listening to all these songs for a week, i guarantee you that you will feel better about her.

its going to be hard cuz your heart is going to want to listen to music more, but you have to be strong and say no.. just dont listen to music and you will.

trust me on this one. i've been there

ok, ill try it.

thanks

dilllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

not listening to music to music wont help you to get over her if anything listen to more music it will get you mind of stuff, im goin through kinda of the same thing sept my gf didnt cheat on me we jus broke up after a really long time, what you need to do is go out and find sum nice pussssy and just remember there is so many girls out there and its her lost

this happen to me it sucks the thought of it killed me all i did is think about her and thought of how could she do this to me. the way i got over it was first i got rid of everything that reminded me of her like gifts and stuff like that i stop going to places that we use to go to as also if u still keep in touch dont if you do it will only bring back all those great memories and you will not get over her. if u do keep in touch like i said dont u need to cut off all contact no emal no texts no myspace to nothing get rid of her number from your cell phone i know it sounds hard but u have to othersise u will keep going back to the same place over and over again. and finally time time time its true

i share that same situation but worse, since she came back into my life and then just left all of a sudden again. wow. the one you love huh? we'll find others out there

man this is wat u do
u don't talk to her 1st
2nd change your sim
3rd delete all her pics
4th don't look at her ( i know u do but don't )
5th get yourself another girl
6th dude that will keep u busy and she is gone from your heart
7th
now say thank you

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i just wana know how can i avoid my mistakes which i often do with my gf

i just got dumped by my gf and i cant stop thinking about her its driving me crazy!! and none of this advise is helping me its just too hard! i think about killing myself each day. and shes hurt me so much and i still love her. please.. pleas pleas please help me!!

firstly if you are thinking about killing yourself then you should probably go see a psychiatrist. they do help you no. the way i got over my ex was to get rid of everything that reminded me of her. it was hard to do cause i didnt want to forget her. just being around friends helps. give her space she will talk to you when shes ready

dude she cheated on u. its her loss

i was with my girl 4 over 2years we broke up not too long ago cause her head was all over the place and she didnt know y we never stop'd talkin or tell each other we loved eachother then i find out she's sleepin with my cousion to day wha should i do think im goin mad

here's the thing, music will get you. stop listening to the songs that remind you of her. and secondly, erase any calls on you phone that might remind you of her, pictures included. it's hard, but do it!!! third, throw away any gifts she bought for you...and fourth, you will cry, and you might be waiting for her call, and if she does call, ignore it...that's just proof that she is at fault, and that's just not good enough. a man needs to stand up and take pride in what has has been taught to him, and a lying women isn't good enough. you don't want to mix confused emotions with a real feeling like love. believe me, i've been there. it'll take time, but be strong, and ignoring her is all you can do. it's a long and painful process, but it can be done my friend. be strong, and live free...

i really thought i was the only one who went through this. my gf of 3 years pretty much changed into a whole different person over night. its like she's seeing somenone else, but she keeps promising me she doesn't and that we'll talk about it to make stuff better.but once we start talking she acts like she could careless. a few hours later she's calling me or texting me calling me baby, saying i love you, ect.. im just so hurt and lost.

understanding a girl is the biggest difficulty that i ve ever seen in my life...point by point suggestions from saurav sounds the best to me. so i am sure you are near the 5 th point cuz i saw tina's msg right after saurav's. haha have fun...99 % of the girls in the world ditch for strong reasons which are unpredictable . but they wont accept as to why they did so..wealth could be the reasons. so don't treat your gf like a goddess while you are in to a relationship.. the more u do the more you ditch yourself.

there is this girl who i really like but she cant date me cuz of her parents and i think i love this girl. its just so hard i think bout her every minute of everyday. help me

right now im going through the same thing and these people seem to know what they are talking about but i think that music can help if its the right kind

hey i was going out with this girl for four months and we were having such a good time, i started to fall for her and suddenly out of nowhere she just breaks up with me, wouldn't answer her phone and did everything by text,,,, i gotta say this took me a long time to get over from.....the way i saw it was that you start falling for girl and let you feelings go and boom out of nowhere they drop you like you are nothing to them! this makes me wonder whether its worth taking girls seriously or not!

im not sure if anyone looks at this anymore. but its worth a try. first off i dont really have that many friends to talk to about this. its not that i cant get friends. i just choose friends wisely. i have 2 besides my girlfriend. well since its the internet alot more sources from more people from different aspects on life. = more advice for me. so heres the situation. :

my girlfriend and i have now been dating 25 months. we lived togther for ahwile as well, seeing each other everyday, hanging out everyday. literally. i love her. im in love with her.

but just recently she went off to university. im 3 yrs older so i already went thru art school. and working now but just got fired. anyways. its now october 17th. she left september 3rd. and just this past week she's had midterms and studying. so i tried to give her her space. but it turned into her not sayin good morning or goodnight anymore. her not bringher phone out to parties. so i cant even txt her while shes out.

now she doesn;t know what she wants - confused. could we fix not talking anymore/ or should we end it. we barely have time to talk except for skype. about our days our lives. its the life of long distant relationship. but it takes time and work. to make it work. but i feel shes given up. i've lost hope she really loves me.. she says she needs a breather. becuz if we broke up what if she wanted me still and she was totally wrong of how she felt. i wanted if we wre going on a break. (which we have twice in the past) on for each of us to figure things out. that i didnt want to go through that pain again. so we might as well end it if its come to this and its only october. instead we decided. that i cant text or call. and it will allow her to know. if she felt obligated to talk to me. or wanted to talk to me. i think she was cofused if she really missed me. becuz 2days pass with no word and she didnt notice. i went to the doctors. and she knew but never asked what was wrong or how it went.

i feel crazy. after we decided that it drove me mad. hurt so much. i felt like there was someone else in the picture. but she promised their wasnt anyone. i listened to music that ate me up inside. but it gives me strength and talent as a writer and artist. for some reason i strive off depression and pain. and sadness. my friend told me to not listen to music - if i do listen to music that makes me angry- i drank since 3 pm till 4 am. that night. i plan on drinking again tonight. it was nice being around friends forgetting. but im home alone now. friends are away. and i find myself here listening to music. and feleasing everything around in my room. reminds of her. what do i do? can long distant relationship lasts? work? should i be worried? or should i end it?

ok im going threw the same thing but she dumped me after she cheated on me at least 10 times and im just ignoring her and not looking in her directon and im only talking to her when she talks to me and its working for me

at epyeon

look man, you should leave her. most of us, surprisingly have been in very similar situations with very similar girls. she may say there's nobody else... but so did my ex. and there was. girls are weird. she probably just doesn't want to hurt you, ironically. and guess what, that whole, out of nowhere shit? same here. it seems like everything is fine, but then all of a sudden they're seeing you as a different person. they're confused. don't know what they want.

look. stability is the number one important thing in love. if you have to be worrying about whether or not your relationship is ok, while she seemingly doesn't really care, the relationship is not worth salvaging as it will just end up in the same place.

all this is from experience. it's not fair. it's not fair to love someone so much and then one day it's just not returned.

don't ask me how to get over her though, f**K if i know. it's been a month since my two year relationship ended and it hurts just as much as

it did that first day i realized i wasn't loved anymore.

i've tried drowning it all in nicotine. it helps, most definitely, but it's certainly not the answer.

i know i may not be the biggest help, but let me tell you, your relationship is in all likelyhood- over. even if you guys "work" things out again, this very situation will arise once again. it's best to get out of the relationship now and try to salvage yourself instead of doomed love.

it hurts, i know. have a ciggarete, man.
*gives you a light*

to yellow, i appreciate your advice and taking the time out of your day to write all the words of knowledge you have.

i just wanted to to say my words of hope that

im happy.

i found the strength to end it with my ex

it took alot. i ignored her at first but then i was forced to talk to her and i said "i dont think we should be together anymore" and she wanted me back, cried, said she needed me.

and i knew those words were going to come, they always do.

but you have to stand your ground

and do whats best for you. and i found the strength and ended it. i did it :)

after that, i felt so free, i was able to continue and life and find happiness

i took singing lessons, got a membership at the gym, and go atleast twice a week, and i actually found a new girl who is amazingly so compatibile with me.

its unbelieveable how happy i am with her, and how she makes me feel,.

im a better me when im with her, she strives me and motivates me to keep moving forward and doesnt hold me back

theres hope guys, and i found it.

i had it

i traveled to different far cities to see old good friends and it helped, everywhere i went i learnt or gained something.

it was nice to have that freedom, i would have never did that if i was with my ex.

i also applied to school again, and now awaiting the reply but still i took the step.

im moving away to a new city to start a new and everything seems to be going great,

try to keep only positive things in ur life, stay away from negativity. u know what u want in life and u kno what u deserve .

if its not beneficial to your life dont, do it. or deal with it.

u know what makes u happy and what makes u hurt.

if ur heart hearts its not right.

remember that.

i guess im talking to whoever comes here next and reads my words and looking for advice, or guidance or something..

just remember, its ur life. u kno what u deserve. stay positive . and remember to smile :)

epyeon.

if we crawl
till we can walk again
then we'll run
until we're strong enough to jump
then we'll fly
until there is no end
so lets crawl, crawl, crawl
back to love

man, i dated this girl for 3 1/2 years. yeah we had some ups and downs. but since june everything was on the up and up. then we decided to get our first apartment together. once that happend, she became a diferent monster. she wanted to invite her sisters over ay time, and drink and what not. and when i told her that i didn't lie that, she went bezerk. then we had plans for new years, but she ditched me for her sisters again. then we had a puppy, we couldn't keep it so she said i'll give it to my sister. i changed my mind, she went bezerk again. then i lost it. cussed her the hell out, and all the bad stuff along with it. kicked her out of the apartment. for the last year and a half, we dont even argue amongst ourselves. all our arguments involve her sisters. i told her to remove them from the relationship, she didin't do so. and look where we are. i do love her, but a part of me is saying don't go back. a part is saying work it out. i dunno

f**K love, all i got for hoes is hard dick and bubble gum

f**K love, all i got for hoes is hard dick and bubble gum

f**K love, all i got for hoes is hard dick and bubble gum

yo i feel u guys 2, ive bin talkin 2 diz gurl 4 almost 3 months n me n her luv each otha i dont doubt dat but she plays me 2 much, me n her talk bout it n she says shes not she woodnt do dat, n we jus stop talkin2 time 2 time den we work things out n its all gudd but all ma friends tell me shes playin me n i get da feelin 2, she calls 1 of ma friends her brotha but i rlly kno she dont think of him az a brotha, she lik him, n he told me she gon let him do stuff 2 ha

yo to all the other guys out there with there hearts broken just wait even if the world seems to crash down around you keep strong only time can mend a broken heart

guyz. help me... i've broken up wid my gf... shez stoppd returnin my caals nd texts... ive tried everything above but ultimately i end up thinking about her... i think itzz jus coz i relly love her.. i text her nearly 70-80 timez a day.. bt she doesnt reply to even one... i'm just not able to get over her. at the end of the day i end up sittin on fb viewing her profile and watchin her pics.. HELP!

- at - Arjun
i know exactly how you feel man, i was with this girl, and all our friends said she was all over me, crazy about me, i have temporarily moved though, so we are in different countries now. I talked with her the first few days but now she doesnt talk back at all, without any notice, i cant help but sit on facebook looking at her profile, thinking about the good times we had. I hate this feeling, almost doesnt make up for the good feelings b4 hand =(

hey man all you can do is just forget she exsists, i mean there is really no other way to deal with a girl that hurt you like that. i have been hurt sooo bad b4, but in my situation i just cant let go of her yet, but when and if i do, the only thing im gonna be able to do to get by is to totally forget she exsists... move away maybe even. but thats just me im an extremest. but all i can say is time man time, time is the key to fixing everything. time and distractions is all you can do.

i know how you feel im so in love with this girl and we just broke up like that, really the best thing to do is find something to do , keep your mind at that then later that night cry get over it keep telling your self to be strong, i promise it'll work cause its sorta working for me.

welll... mine is slightly similar. i really like some1 and want to get over her. i took advise from frends/sis/bro at first to refresh urself. then for 1 hour or so think why u like her. do u rly like her? or just her looks and that. if u like her deeply then ull have to ignore her and do something to get her off ur head, enjoy ALTO and laugh lots and eventaully ull end up noraml.(i gave ths advise to 5 ppl sofar and i works so u try and if it dont work, ill give u another advise that will help) ill give u about 2 weeks to get over her just ask if it fails cuz i have another great 1 that helps :) me mail: pcprabin - at - hot mail

me and my ex were friends for like a year then we wound up kissing at the movies and made a plan to start going out right after new years then two days later she broke up with me and now its march and im still not over her... ive been weak and trying to be her friend... i gave in to everything but now i really wanna get over her... we rarely talk in person should i give up tht and facebook should i stop sending her messages?

im in a same situation as all of u i have been best friends with this girl for 10 years and u kno we were on and off friends bf gf u kno and just like augest of 2009 she decided to start talking to me again after like a couple years and she has a baby 2 years old girl so cute we started off as friends but kinda moved quickly we were friends for like 2 months hooking up but just friends i finally asked her out she said yea then a couple weeks in to the relationship she said she was pregnant i honestly never seen the pregnancy test i wish i did and this was around middle october then she says on my birthday nevember 14th that she had a miscarriage i was really hurt but still a little young so it wasnt like me crying every day over it and a couple days after misscarriage she said she got an iud which is like a birthcontroll and a couple weeks after that she said she has been feeling bgood and this was like at the end of november she said she has a feeling she is pregnant this time i made sure i was their i didnt see her go pee on the things but i was right outside the door and she came out we waited a few minutes both came up positive and i was hurt happy and everything cause from the begging of the relationship she told me she didnt want anyone elce she wanted me never wanted to leave me again she loved me she was moving really fast talking about marriage getting a place but starting end of december early janurary things started hapening started getting feelings she was being shady and going behind my back and i couldnt prove it so i just left me feelings to myself but her babys daddy is still kinda in her life but around this time i notice he is coming in her life more and more and she says they dont talk or never cheat but from begining of janurary till about now ive caught her their a couple times and she always had an excuse y she was their, they talked on the phone and when they talked she acted like she still cared just how she acted towards me we broke up a couple times from janurary to march and the last time we broke up i gave her another shot said this as ur last one and she was still pregnant i asked her to promise me she wont talk to him and see him then she promises and a couple weeks after this which like 3 days ago i tried calling her multiple times she didnt answer and that was a sign of something is wrong so i called her house her mom says she is with babys daddy and then i was pissed the f*ck off calling her like 30 times she finally answers and says she is getting him pissed off i said idc i kept asking y u their she was ignoring the question then after like 20th time asking she said cause he is paying for her insurance on her car so she turns off her phone and i just say whatever im done and we should get rid of baby cause i was to yound and if i left her she went back to her first baby daddy he wouldnt take care of our baby so that night she kept her phone off and her car at home and he picked her up so i had no clue is she slept their or what time she got home all i kno is she texted me 3 times and called me once at 230 am so the day after i told her we are done we gotta get an abortion cause its the best thing to do right now after talking about it for a little bit she tells me she lost it i was like what she says she lost it 2 weeks ago and she didnt wanna tell me cause she didnt wanna lose me which she knew if she didnt do nothing wrong i would never leave her so basically she had me and my mom going for 2 weeks she even a week after it happened bought baby clothes making me think she was still pregnant basically after that we went to pregnancy place to confirm she wasnt pregnant test came back negative so after that we talked she said she was gonna be done with him she is getting a new number going to councling cause she got problems with herself about not getting closure with her other relationship i said maybe if u can show me and stop lieing and being shady in the future we can be together and she said she will do whatever it takes well basically a day after saying that we were good all yesterday she said she was going bowling with her friend which was true then she might go to pool hall well i went partying so i didnt think of her well i told her to call me when she gets home i notice its 1 am she never called so i went past her house not home i know were her baby daddy lives so i went past their and she was their it hurt so much cause i thought she was going to try make things better and i was willing to give her another chace i tryed calling her multiple times that night she didnt answer then today she turned her phone off still their now she is the love of my life i dont see being with anyone elce loved her since the first day i met her basically i just need someone to help me get over this cause it really is killing me ive throw all her stuff away she gave me deleted her number even though i kno it by heart which really doesnt matter i deleted her off facebook i just need som