How To Deal With Depression Lonelyness Sadness Despair Or Hopelessness

just remember that god doesnt give you more than you can handle. everything will be ok. you have to be strong for your wife and family but more importantly, for yourself. my husband is going through the same thing and it hurts so much as i dont know how to help him. but the truth is he has to help himself first. if you commit suicide you are being selfish, you promised to look after your wife in sickness and in health, for better or worse. and now that its worse if you leave her what would that make you?

there's always a solution. sometimes when our plans dont work out, its because god has something else planned for us, something bigger and better than we will ever know. we just have to trust in him and know that he loves us.

i am praying for you.

tanhai kia hia yeh sab koo pata hia tanhai aik bohot hee azeeat naak marhala hota hia joo insaan dunia kay shoor sharabay say tang aa jay woh hee tanhai pasand karta hia.

thank you kats. its been more than a year know. altho i have not fully resolved my problem im stronger now. i know god has helped me. thank your for praying for me. and i hope if anyone who is reading this now. you are here for a reason. its because you feel sad. well, i felt sad too. i remember this day. i was so depresed and felt so lonely. i really thought it was the end of me. i felt like whatever i do i would not get through this. my heart felt heavy. so heavy. like if it was swallen. i wanted to just hide and for people to leave me alone. i hated everyone i only felt confort when i went to bed and lie down and think about the problem i was facing. althot the problem still lingers in my mind, im not afraid anymore. i know i will have to face it sooner or later, but the good thing about this time is that i feel strong and i can face it. this made me realize not to be afraid of anything nor anyone.

i was blessed because my wife she is strong in character, she gave me confort and i could see it in her eyes when i looked at her. she felt so helpless. but i knew she depended on my. im glad im over that.

if you are going through a tough time, just know that you will get through it. there is nothing you can't face. if you have people in your life, dont turn your back on them, now is the time when if you have someone near you to welcome them, open your arm and cry on their shoulder.. you know what ive learned, its ok to cry. after you cry, you will see you will feel much better.

tell me about your problem. you will see if it will feel good to write about what your going through and you wont feel alone because there are other people just like you who are going through a tough time.

my husband of 9 years left me without warning when we found out that i have a type of blood cancer, he told my daughter that he couldnt handle my illness, then i found out he has been having an affair with the female police officer he works nights with. thats when i went into a deep deppression and almost died my kids put me in the hospital but never called or came to see me. i am on disability now and am having to live with my daughter now who takes every oppertunity to tell me how lucky i am that she lets me stay here.i am so sad and lonely sometimes i just dont want to go on. i know they say god wont give you more than you can handle but i am not so sure about that.

i don't know ur problem but i feel keeping urself busy is the best solution for this problem. i have been doing this since 27th dec., 2007

just 3 months of marraige , i'm desserted by my husband . it was an arrange marraige , his elder sister is againt the marraige thou it was arranged. first 10 days very lovely , after that my husband created lots of problem , either demanding my earings , suspecting me ,either forcing me to quit the job and join his family in the village . beign a s/w engg i was not ready . i'm now safe with my parents . today my close friend sangeetha's wedding was their . i just came back arranging her first night , very much missing a good husband , very depressed , i'm sinking in a an endless well...................... wanna die

its funny i pray to jesus all the time but im still in this valley of shadow, it doesnt get better it just changes but its still a shadow. its lonelyness may i ask what the deal is? because im at a loss here its so sad ,hopeless and tragic, lonelyness is terrible, but i am very very blessed, i still have my health

it would be better you start meditation under guidance. i feel like you 'n started meditation 'n now feels improving too.
god bless you.

you will overcome it. when the light comes we forget the dark. trust!

darwinism is the real truth

problem is i made my world with one girl and have mabe two other friends and when she left me all i had was two guys that i hung out with mabe every other week.things got lonely fast! turning to these guys didnt help.she said we werent going anywhere and left in a way where she didnt want me to see her. wow. oh yeah im 46. how do you start from here?

i hope all gets better to you,let all of you find love
dont give up
please