i read your story and i have to say that i am inspired. it made me realize that we are all different and we should embrace our differences. let me tell you what i did to deal with a lesbian friend that was trying to get with me.

i had been friends with her since like the 4th grade. we used to hang out all the time with the boys from the neighborhood. but as we got to high school, things changed, she stayed away from us and started hanging out with other girls. they look heavy and bulky. i never understood why. at first i thought i had done something to get her mad and thats why she didnt like hanging out with me anymore.

so on our senior year, we had a class together and we were lab partners. i enjoyed her because i knew her and she was really cool. so we got to be friends again. so once i asked her if she wanted to go to the mall with me to pick out a dress for the prom. so we went, we tried out clothes and it was fun.

so suddenly she started to say i had a really nice body and i was really cute. i acted surprise because i know im good looking. hehehe. but she never had told me anything like that, so i just took it as coming from a good friend.

so last week we went to see a movie together, and she started to hold my hands, i felt weird and strange that she was doing that, so i just let her. then she started to feel my legs, i was like.. whhhatttt the... so i got up and walked outside. after like 5 mins, she came out from the theater and asked me if i was ok. i explained i felt weird she touching my legs like that.

- long story short,, she confessed and told me that she liked me and that well, she like girls. i felt really uncomfortable at that moment because i never saw myself as liking other women.

so i was respectful and told her that i am not like that. i am straight and i am happy the way i am. so after that, i drove her back to her house and said good by.

now that i look back on the whole situation, i realize that well, we are all different. but i dont know how to say it. i mean, i do respect her, but i dont agree with what she is doing because she is such a beautiful woman, and she could be so beautiful is she like wore makeup and a nice dress.

so the question is how do you deal with a lesbian friend. the best way to deal with that situation is honesty. dont feel pressure to accept or do something you are not comfortable and be honest to the other person and tell them how you feel, otherwise, they will keep doing it. so basically, its just like dealing with a boy. you know guys will always try to be smooth and you say no. so the same, its about respect.

so whats your story?