when i was in school i remember i was so shy. i cant believe now how shy i was. there was this girl i liked so much, she was on my 5th period class. i loved going to that class just because of her. i would stare at her. it was weird because i also would catch her staring at me.. but i dont know if she was staring at me or staring at my big nose.. .lol!!

i was not a confident guy back then. i was so shy. six months went by and i never said hi to her. but oh boy, she was so beautiful.

so if you are wondering why a shy guy is not talking to you, i will try to explain. coming from a shy guy myself.

shy guys lack the confidence to approach a girl and talk to her because they are afraid of rejection. i told this to my older brother and he said. 'so what, so what if she rejects you, take it like a man'

so one day following his advise, i approached this girl i liked and started talking to her, we became friend and later i found out that she already had a boyfriend. that was devastating for me.

so after that experience, i didn't want to get hurt anymore. and because of that, i missed out on some really nice girls.

now that i am older, i am more confident about myself and i can handle rejection much better. so if you know of a shy guy that maybe you think he likes you but doesn't show it. it might be that he is just scared to get rejected.

you know, friends put a lot of pressure on you, specially guys, they push you to get a girl and when you dont get her, they make fun of you and make you feel less of a man.

so maybe you can take some advice. you have two options:

1. go and talk to the guy yourself. make him feel comfortable talking to you.

2. let him approach you. if he's confident enough, he will do it. you know, when a guy REALLY, REALLY, REALLY likes a girl, he wont care about anything and will do anything to try to get you. its a thrill to case a girl. believe it or not, i find it more interesting when a girl plays hard to get

so it all depends on what you want. and whats worth to you. if you want a weak guy you can control or a strong guy that can protect you.